Do women prefer fit or fat men?

[ManHater]

An honest question here... From a woman's perspective if you had the choice in body would you rather date a man who was fit and active or a man who was not active and was fat.

I am sure women would say it depends on the guy... sure if he was fat and had a good personality but maybe the sex was dull? Or a fit guy who can put out and well make it interesting? Either way there are many factors but right down to it would you rather be with a fit guy or a fat guy? Well not to say that fat women would want to date a man who was equally as big that's a given.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

It doesn’t take much honesty, they prefer fit, of course.

[YAsQuen]

it takes 1950s average mostly.(more IS better of course) Its society itself thats feminizing men thats making them so disgusting looking to most women.

[ManHater]

I could not agree more. "Thumbs up"

[Potteplante]

Physically, I'm more into big guys, here I don't necessarily mean fit - a belly is perfectly fine if not preferable. Always have, as a fat woman and now as a skinnier woman.

However a inactive man, has always been a turn off for me. Fat men - yes please, inactive men, no thank you.

& Yes you can be fat and active, fat doesn't always equal morbixly obese.

[Nifrayu]

I think Sumo wrestlers are proof of that one.

[Anemone978]

I like skinny men with abs.. that is my type.. but I will take any skinny guy.. if I feel he is too hot for me tho I tend to push them away.. LOL

[red324]

Must be what they do to me. The girls I date are their own worst enemy. One date and they talk themselves out of why they should be with me.

[red324]

You look plenty sexy to me, but I can only see your face.

[Anemone978]

@red324 yeah only my face is good not my body xD

[Nifrayu]

Most guys would agree that the face is the most important part.

[red324]

Some girls only think they're sexy if they look like a runway model.

[Shamalien]

@red324 I had one try to do this once lol, funny thing is, she’s the hottest girl I’ve dated

[red324]

@Shamalien try and do what?

[Shamalien]

@red324 talk themselves out cause they think I won’t be satisfied with em

[Masterodd]

I have no clue, but I see so many fit men who are chubby lovers and I've seen many fit women who are chubby lovers too... so I really don't know... I know I like trim, slim, fit, athletic women... I'm a well-built guy, not overly muscular... but I haven't worked out to be like this to fall for the chubby ladies. :)

[Peter_Penetrator]

I wouldn’t say they prefer fat men but maybe a little overweight.


A woman with a significant other that is overweight will relieve the pressure of them constantly working to stay thin.


A woman with a fit s/o will have more competition from other fit women out to steal her man.

[Avicenna]

Fit ones obviously

[MrNameless]

I think they want someone on the same level as them. If they are fit themselves, they will want a fit man. If they aren't fit themselves, they won't really care and might even be intimidated if he is

[Peanut_Lemon]

Not to spread false positivity, but I personally say it's all down to who you are on the inside. A more 'eye pleasing' man could have the worst ego/personality you ever could have imagined. Vice versa for a more plus sized man.

[Monalisa77]

All the guys I've liked were in good shape, i dont like using the word fat as i think its rude. I dont think it would be possible for me as im so smalli, it would just look awkward

[OfMiceandMen]

I think women tend to like a guy that takes care of themself. If they put the effort into look good, why not expect it in return.

[Siri137]

Fit of course. Being fat is unhealthy and unattractive.

[RingOfFire]

This is even a question? Except for virtue signalers, what woman would prefer a fat man to a fit one? maybe a woman who was also fat so she doesn't feel so bad about herself all the time?

[AmyHew1tt]

Fit, generally. But what that means is different for everyone.

[tzdc21]

Come on man. I think that's a pretty easy question.

[Date_a_Snob]

I've dated guys who were overweight, average and muscled. I would rather date an average looking guy.

[red324]

Care to elaborate? 🤔

[RealMarek]

Science says: Fit men. But did we need studies in order to know this?

[Anonymous]

i dgaf
its what i prefer thats important,
in alternate universe where men are created for womens pleasure your preference counts.
I've got fat on me in mah old age and i kinda like it.
youd better like it too or you're history

[Shanigal313]

I prefer slightly chubby, not too skinny or fit but not too overweight

[captain_voidwalker]

I whould imagine it's like men. Most men prefer not to fat but not super skinny either.
A girl that's about 5'6 and 120 or 130 is about perfect

[DextroShade]

If women preferred fat men no guy would go to the gym.

[Juxtapose]

Come on man, look at beauty magazines featuring men. Are any of them fat?

[Anonymous]

I don’t like skinny men. If I had to choose between fat and skinny I'd probably go with fat ones.
Speaking of your question, my answer is fit men

[bradley142]

i thought some women was into dad bods theses days lol dang guess i was wrong most all women and girls here want the fit type

[Anonymous]

Usually fit or average but I see fat guys with women too , someone out there for everyone I guess

[Solo3k]

Fit men for fun

Fat men for a relationship

[MaxUsefull]

Of course women prefer fit, just as we prefer the fit ones

[Chthou95]

In general women prefer men who are in shape

[MissBoogus]

I like active strong fat men

[4ngelic]

fit obviously

[CoolCatMar1]

Fit>>

[Anonymous]

In between

[Nifrayu]

Fit.

[Anonymous]

Fit men!