What is the importance of hair on a guy? What physical traits might compensate for this flaw?

[Anonymous]

and what physical traits might compensate for this flaw?

Yeah i'm severely balding and 22 yo.

[sage2021]

You asked what PHYSICAL trait would compensate for your hair loss. However, when I read through the other opinions, it isn't a PHYSICAL trait that can make up for it except to get muscles maybe.
My last boyfriend was an older person, like me. However, he went bald at age 18. Even when I met him seven years ago, I could tell he was still self-conscious about not having any hair. His brother on the other hand has very thick, rich looking hair. So much for genetics.
Yes, he has a little bit of white hair at the base of his scull - at least he still had that 🙂.
Granted, he was the first guy that was as bald as he was. But ya know what, his personality was so good (at that time) and we laughed together a lot. I didn't just love him, I fell in love with him, no hair and all.
As he got older, he wore baseball type hats, which looked good on him. Then he started getting a scab on the top of his head, and he kept picking at it. As it turns out, his hats were digging into his head and caused a slight staph infection - so be careful of that.
But just between you and I, his hairy chest was so sexy and that is what turned me on. That and his whitty personality.

[Anonymous]

I'm bald as fuck. The only thing that matters is confidence son.

When I go out and want to look my best I cut my hair. But otherwise I don't give a fuck and I walk around looking like complete shit with all the hair on the sides long and nothing on top.

And I still get beautiful women flashing their energy at me and flirting and all of that. The only thing that matters is confidence.

When you have it you will know because women will direct a whole new energy at you.

When you act right, they reward you with their eye contact, their smiles, laughs at what you say, get near you or initiate talking to you.

When you do the wrong things they withdraw all of those things.

If you manage to zero in on some confidence the ladies will reward you.

However there is a caveat. Sometimes if your confidence seems a little shaky, the ladies will test you. They will tease you about your height or your hair or whatever.

You don't want to fail that test.

What is confidence? The complete lack of care. If she teases you about your hair and you care, it WILL show on your face and body.

Women are far more in tune with those micro expressions that can't be hidden.

Especially women who are looking for a lot of confidence. But most only need some, not tremendous amounts. Only the hottest girls demand perfect confidence.

Anyways the only key to success is to cease to care. If you care, you will be tested and you will fail as your caring is expressed in your body and you cannot hide it.

[coachTanthony]

Shave that shit off... grow a goat or a beard and you'll be fine. It's very rare that a guy has a weird shaped head that they just can't pull it off. Not to mention so many who haven't even tried it will say no my head is shaped weird blah blah blah.. . try it then decide.

[Sonorous]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDqfqZNBkyY

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

It’s okay. We do like hair generally but half of the world’s population is sort of bald.

No worries.

Shave it off totally, that will be sexier.

[Rei13]

I personally find hair attractive, however if you’re balding you’re best off just accepting it. Either shave it off completely or get hair transplants so that you will still look your best

[magiusX26]

honestly, there will alwaysbe some trait or another that others will not care for another having, such as balding, hair color, some disability or another (physical or mental) , where you grew up, the music (or other media) you like. accept that fact, move on and stop worrying about others not liking that trait. and fyi i am balding too, does not bother me at all. i started balding in my 30s even though i used to have very think hair that was even envied. had people try bothering me about it, i embrace it. it messes many up that their comments and joke dont bother me.

[love_conquers_lust]

Youth. It’s the same reason long hair looks good on women.

Physical traits that women like would be everything else. Lucky for you women will focus on many other things including personality. It’s actually a blessing that women can have these long lists of checkboxes. It’s how they tolerate us. You and I both know we tend to be much simplerxas our dick does most of the talking. Your last line should say, “I’m bald and girls love to rub my head” or “My girlfriend loves how I take the effort to make my head as smooth as she is.”

Don’t worry about it. You’re a guy who is supposed to have a don’t give a shit attitude when it comes to negative things that impact you. Be strong, not weak.

[smne35]

I feel you, just don't try to cover your whole head with the 3 strands you have left lol, don't even let this be an issue for your women like the bald look if you wear it with confidence, and be yourself, your personality is what compensates you just go through your days not even giving it a second thought

[Peter_Penetrator]

If you are a young man, pay attention to or look back on when your dad began losing his hair. If hair loss is hereditary in your family, don’t wait for yours to disappear. Embrace it. Rock life with your shaved head held high and your shoulders back. That is confidence. Confidence is a chick magnet. It doesn’t matter if a woman loves a man with a full head of hair. They all love a confident man much more.

[RingOfFire]

Not a big deal. It's not as important to women as womens' hair is to men. Look at all the famous guys over the years who were considered hot who are bald. The only way it will hurt you is if you let it kill your confidence. Get a good hair stylist to let you know how it looks best... ... either a woman or a gay guy 🤣... cut the right way or shaved off.

[RingOfFire]

PS: I have a friend who was about your age when he started balding badly. He shaved his head, the girls loved it and still to this day he can't fight them off. Don't sweat it.

[Angxl3120]

Hairs is sometimes a major thing that determines your looks, its either completely bald which is also as good, or good hair. Balding won't matter if you have other good things (as per looks), like muscles, dressing sense, how you talk, etc.

[Anonymous]

Of the guys that I know who went bald early, it's embracing it, at least publicly, because a lot of people don't like lack of confidence or someone who just keeps bringing it up and woe is me. Just roll with it. Shave your head or cut it down short and rock it. You're not broken, you're not flawed, you're not unable to have a good personality or to have good looks just because you're bald or balding.

[Nirmroth]

Having a nice formed skull and good facial hair. A well formed beard would be good.

At some point you will reach a line were your hair will look better off, dont miss it. I see to many people holding on whats left while looking like a clown.

[andreasderjuengere]

Hair on a guy keeps him protected from the cold, and from the sun's UV attack.

Which makes it kind of important indeed.

To compensate physically, one can wear a warm cap, and use sunscreen.

[blueonblack22]

I’m sorry to hear about this bro. But tbh from my observations it’s not as big as deal to women as you may think. Especially if you got a skull that looks good shaved.

[YaGirlKatie]

I prefer a guy with hair. I do like a guy with long hair. I think bald is also attractive, some more than others

[Bricealan]

My brother has lost much of his hair, and has been losing it for a long time. It bothers him a lot. Some take it better than others. I know. It sucks.

[jshm2]

None. While it's not something to commit suicide over, it does make you less of a man that your hormones are weak and you should not breed,

[Pyxel]

Don't leave the hair, shave it all. It's gonna look great, rarely looks bad. Get some muscle. Balding needs some muscles. Look at The Rock, Jason Statham, etc.

[rienna888]

Get hair transplants, I think hair is very important on a person. Sorry I’ve never been attracted to a bald man

[Tomisworthless]

If your bald but either masculine and can grow a beard or just handsome you shouldn't worry i myself am balding and am unattractive feminine and can't grow a beard due to low testosterone

[Anonymous]

Shaving your hair completely and the confidence in you can make it more attractive. Confidence is attractive

[Anonymous]

I’m bald on top but not completely, still some hair there and didn’t lose it until I was 38 years old, only some women care about that, if you’re confident and build up your body that can compensate for the loss

[RedInnocent68]

Oh, I don’t know. Confidence, personality, 🍆…

[Kingofkings1992]

If a girl rejects you because of something like that, she’s not a very good person. Definitely not someone worth being with.

[rachel776]

it depends on the guy

[Nikki1989]

It is not a flaw.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Get a realistic wig , also self confidence

[YAsQuen]

same as always massive dong and money

[Kristierose]

It's your big part of biengba maj

[Anonymous]

Affects his whole look

[Anonymous]

Just shave your head and be proud!

[Chayce]

Go to Türkiye

[Ifitbtbtb]

Money. Muscles.