Why do so many (white) men disregard hot women of color while putting average white women on a Podestal?

[Anonymous]

[JacobJordan]

who says they are hot or average? you or the observer? see we have this thing where beauty is in the eye of the beholder. so if you are claiming these women are hot and those women are average and yet those women are on the pedestal and these women are not then logically the person beholding those women find them far more attractive than these women. for example I find almost no women of color attractive but I find white women to be very attractive.

[normalice]

Racism, obviously. Women of color are viewed as lower class and some white men don't want to be in a position where they are giving a handout in perpetuity.

[Asker]

Yeah but it seems so internalized that they themselves don’t notice it’s racism and just think it’s in their nature to only like white women

[normalice]

Such is the way of all prejudice, sadly..

[Tim2nice]

Nonsense. She says she’s Asian and I have zero attraction towards Asian women but I’m attracted to some black women. You can’t help what your brain likes

[normalice]

@Tim2nice of course. I'm talking about the sweeping effects, not effects on an individual level. The culture of passive racism trends people away from people of color. It's not a conscious avoidance. It's "grooming," really. It's true you can not help how you were groomed. But someone could have.

[DannyUk2017]

Colour women are not disregarded, just not very approachable, as very less white guys dealt with them, so we don't know if we would be Accepted by them or not.🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

LOL. This guy had a crush on me and never approached me even though he knew I liked him back but as soon as a mid blonde enters his life he is all over her and super confident and pushy -.-

[DannyUk2017]

Well then sounds like His Loss..
Maybe he never "tasted Chocolate"...🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[Asker]

Im half Asian

[Asker]

It just hurts to be seen as less than just because of my race

[DannyUk2017]

Holy shit, that's even Hotter, wtf was in his mind? 🤔

[DannyUk2017]

I feel your pain. 🌹

[Asker]

I just look Asian though but to him everything that is blonde is superior. If I put a blonde wig on a dog he would probably want to date it

[DannyUk2017]

Fuckin hell... sounds like the "poor guy's mind is bleached"...🤣i'm sufe he must have been "brainwashed" by a Blonde. 🤷‍♂️

[BoopBoopBeep]

Maybe while you were convinced you let him know you liked him, it wasn't so clear to him, then she went up and shot her shot instead of sitting on the sidelines.

[CALIGVLA]

Is it? I thought we put Asian girls on a pedestal. I'm married to one and almost every one of my friends would love to have an Asian girlfriend if they had chance. I'd say that Latinas are also very liked by white men.

[Joshydavid25]

Well, do you do the same thing to "men of color".. Over look them for a normal looking "White" guy? Lol..

[Asker]

No i don’t

[Joshydavid25]

Well you seem might interested in what "White" men are doing.. 🤔.. LOL.. But most people are tribal.. I wouldn't call it racist, but that's the way the world is.. They go with people they are familiar with.. Although honestly I feel like a lot of "White" men sort of put "Asian" women on the Highest pedestal at the moment.

[Asker]

Not in Germany …

[Joshydavid25]

Oh, you're in Germany.. Well, that explains things a bit more.. Well if you are attractive like you say, then there's plenty of "White" guys that like beautiful women of color..

[Jersey2]

He thinks they are the hottest and he wants whit babies. Nothing wrong with that. But some will venture out as the leading interracial marriage is not WW/BM, it is White Men and Asian Female.

[abc3643]

That's false; a lot of White men do not have a problem with "women of color".

[zagor]

A lot of white men would go for women of color if they put themselves out there. There aren't many in my area, other than 4'10 Latinas trailed by half a dozen kids.

[jeffend888]

Maybe you should think hard about why. The answer is obvious.

[Anonymous]

I know a girl who married a white guy. Nothing wrong with that

[jahaims]

Attractiveness is subjective

[dudeinohio]

I don't disregard them at all.

[Anonymous]

It's just not his preference.

[Asker]

I think that’s bullshit

[Opinion Owner]

Flip that black guy, white chick. Still think that's BS? Or does "preference" all of a sudden make more sense.

[FenixG45]

NO IDEA! I LOVE hot women of color!

[Abdulwahh]

Is this your assumption or did they tell you this

[Anonymous]

Hot womens are like public toilets...

[ThrillSeeker01]

No idea