How to deal with a partner who doesn't like your mental standards?

[Anonymous]

I don't mean standard by money or looks. just perspective of life and how to deal with it and how to live happy and healthy etc etc.

[Sevenpointfive]

it doesn't even have to be an age gap, but if you don't click mentally in 3 days it's probably not meant to be regardless of attraction and desires. and my only advice to this is what @laly520 said. speak truthfully to each other. bring down your defenses. you already know the attraction is there.

[serious]

Well, if he does not like your mental standards then there is not much hope left in the relationship.

[LazerBean]

By getting rid of them and finding someone who is actually compatible with you.

[slatyb]

You find a more compatible partner.

[laly520]

by discussing it and having a mature conversation