I'm a Bangladeshi girl who's only ever been attracted to white men but would they find me attractive?

[Anonymous]

I came from a highly educated family and not close minded at all. I'm considered fairly attractive to men (and women) in my culture but the white guys I've met so far, offline and online, were super respectful and not flirty at all. Maybe it's cause I met most of them for work purpose?). I've never been to a predominantly white country so I don’t have any idea about their beauty standards. Do white men not find me attractive or is it because of my nationality?

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+1 y

Okay, so I'm thinking of moving to a predominantly white country as that might allow me to meet guys at casual environments.
Also, I'm a virgin, I'm not really enthusiastic about dating too much. I want to wait till marriage and find a man I can stay till we get old together if possible. I don't know if I'm hoping for too much.
Would my views on dating get frowned upon by men in advanced cultures? Should I try casually doing it as much as possible so my future boyfriend wouldn’t get creeped out?

[Oliverlogan263]

I wouldn't worry too much about your nationality affecting whether white guys find you attractive or not. Attraction is such a personal, individual thing - while certain cultures may have prevailing preferences and stereotypes, every guy is different in what they're drawn to.

It's definitely possible the more professional settings you've met white men in so far have influenced their behavior to be more reserved. In a work context, flirting can be inappropriate or make things uncomfortable. But in social situations where people are open to meeting new people and potential romantic connections, I think you'd have a better chance to see if any sparks fly.

Your self-confidence and the light you carry within will matter much more to quality guys than where you're from. While moving somewhere with more diversity could give you more chances to interact with white men socially, the internet also provides opportunities if you want to get to know people overseas first through video chatting. That may help you feel more comfortable if you do visit a predominantly white area one day.

Try not to overthink what "types" different races are supposed to like based on stereotypes. Stay curious, open and true to who you are - that warmth and personality will shine through regardless of how someone may look on the outside. Wishing you the best putting yourself out there in a way that feels safe and comfortable for you.

[incorrected]

I'm a white man who would like to settle down and hates dating, so we have some things in common and it might therefore be an interesting conversation! :)

When you say you're attracted to white men, show us a few pictures of white men that you're attracted to. Nobody is just attracted to mere skin colour/race! I could only tell you if I'd be physically attracted to you after seeing a picture of you, and visa versa. As for mental attraction, that requires getting to know you on a personal level.

What is your vision of marriage and life, what is it that you're looking for, what do you want?

[Avicenna]

I'm pretty sure at least some of them, maybe even most, would find you attractive

[Tim2nice]

I’m sure lots of white men would find you attractive but most will assume you’re into your own culture, religion or ethnicity as that’s normally the case. So you have to make it clear to white men that you’re open minded, not religious or strictly into religion or ethnicity and therefore you’re available to them. Good luck! If I was younger and not married I’d have loved to date you

[Berethor]

Pretty sure that you far from being only bangladeshi, indian who want a white man.

https://qz.com/india/951652/i-almost-feel-like-a-god-from-dating-to-business-white-men-are-winning-in-india

[Asker]

I'm not Indian though.

[Berethor]

Similar no? looking white is valued both in asia and in the west, but Asian seems to value it more nowadays than whites themselves, but there is white men who into exotic looks, even dark skin. Yea waiting until marriage become rare in "advanced cultures", more accurately in modern cultures, non-traditional cultures as white white countries tend to be, but some white men would value your virginity, and would be willing to wait for a virgin. Casually doing it? sex? no better not become a ho, in fact some white men might want you for being a good girl, something that rare with white feminist women.

allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[edmcuck]

I'm attracted to Bangladeshi women. I find them exceptionally beautiful. Definitely some white men will find you attractive. However, perhaps cultural differences may just cause you to not notice their attraction. The Indian women I met are much more open and expressive.

[Drew-1990]

I know I would personally have zero issues. I find many Bangladeshi girls to be extremely attractive. And on your update that would actually boost you in my opinion. I maybe older but I'm also waiting for marriage and would love a girl who is too. I'm not asking obviously but my only concern with you is you are probably too young for me. I'm 33 and wouldn't want a girl with a 10+ age difference.

[FunkyMonkee]

I nearly married a Punjabi. If I recall correctly, she was born in Punjab and moved to Hydrabad.

[FunkyMonkee]

Why would your future boyfriend get creeped out? Over what?

[Asker]

Well, most men in my culture value virginity and lack of experience in women. I've heard that it's completely opposite for white men in progressive societies. They value skilled and experienced women and consider being a girl's first man as a hassle (I heard they refer it as "extra work") and often refuse to take the risk of the girl getting clingy. I could be wrong about it but that's what I heard.

[FunkyMonkee]

I've been hearing that, too but, I can't for the life of me, understand why! I'd love to get at least one virgin! So far, 2 of my 3 girlfriend's had already had a baby before they met me and the other one had at least 3 boyfriend's before me. My chances of ever getting a virgin are slim to none!
If they refer to it as extra work, they're VERY lazy!! How much work could it be? You spend an extra minute or two getting her ready! Next, they'll want paid for it!!
What's wrong with a clingy girl? At least you know she's loyal and in love!!

[Dishwasherowner]

Depends on if you’re conventionally attractive. Some guys like chubby girls but most white guy like a flat tummy big boobies a bubble butt if you are on the bigger side ho for a bigger white guy or an emo loner type he probably could use a hug and he will settle for a bbw

[slatyb]

If you are considered attractive at home, then some white men will also find you attractive.

[Pete671]

White men very often, me included, find darker skinned girls very attractive,,,

[RavVid]

As we don't know how you look we can't advise on your attractiveness from a white guy perspective.

[ProbablyClueless]

I'm sure plenty of us would find a woman like you extremely attractive.

[Fireguy17]

sure, there are women that have found me attractive so there is someone for everyone.

[standardguy]

I would only date christian girls. And besides dark skin means higher melanin rate in the skin which changes the metabolism in the skin.

[zagor]

Whether they find you attractive or not largely depends on whether you are attractive.

[FenixG45]

There's a polite respectful white dude out there for you! The trick is to find him!

[Nikki1989]

I am sure they would.

[Iron_Man]

Yes they would

[laly520]

I can't tell for sure without seeing u

[OddBeMe]

If you hit on us, we will find you attractive.

[In_Trance]

Some probably would; depends what you look like

[Anonymous]

Where would you move somewhere in Europe?