What do guys think when a girl confess first?

[Anonymous]

Be real honest, some say they don’t like it cuz man tend to have the ‘chasing’ mindset so when the girl confess, it is a turn off for them.. But some feel happy about it. Some look down on the girl as the girl seems easy.. How do u guys feel about it?

[Anonymous]

Depends on the girl and how she confessed it. Too many women make the mistake of developing feelings for a guy and then automatically thinking it's mutual. Just because you feel something towards him does not mean he does towards you. And just like if a guy was to seemingly guy come out of the blue and professing his love for you would catch you off guard and potentially Creep you out. So does doing it to a guy.

Look for the signs. Just because you want it to mutual won't make it so.

[Asker]

Fair point. That is if its not mutual. But if the girl receive the same sign from him but instead of waiting him, she decided to make a move first. Will that still leave the same impression?

[Opinion Owner]

Like isaid it depends how prepared he is for it.
It's flattering even if he's not interested. So never feel bad about making your feelings known. But understand his response whether it be yes or no will probably awkward.

[Anonymous]

I like it because then I know that when I ask her out, she'll want to. If I don't know, then I'm worried I'll get rejected or worse creep her out.

[Asker]

Only if u like her back tho🤣 imagine u purely see her just as a friend then she suddenly confess, what will ur next reaction be?

[Tharithi]

It’s a man’s duty to chase , else he is wuss

[Anonymous]

Ahe knows what she wants