How can a 18 year old girl get a boyfriend? Should she used a dating app or wait?

[Anonymous]

[Avicenna]

An 18 year old woman should have no trouble whatsoever getting a boyfriend. She does not need to use dating apps and get besieged by hundreds or thousands of guys.

[Asker]

I have hella trouble getting a boyfriend

[Avicenna]

What kind of social circle do you have?

[Asker]

I’m not a social person and the only guys who try talk to me are guys who calls women bitches and hoes. Or they hit women.

[Avicenna]

OK, there's your problem. You need to socialize with people that have respect for others.

[Asker]

How can I find people like that?

[Avicenna]

What sort of interests do you have, and what kinds of things would you like to develop as interests?

[Asker]

I really don’t have any interests right now and only interest I have right now owning a business

[Avicenna]

That's a great goal to have. What sort of business?

[Asker]

Selling wigs, nails, tanning products, and clothes.

[Avicenna]

Are you networking with business owners, i. e., people who can help you figure out how to get your business started and eventually become profitable?

[Asker]

Nope

[Avicenna]

That can include suppliers as well or people who can refer customers to you. At a minimum, you should join business associations and hobnob with local business owners.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Avicenna]

No problem...

[Anonymous]

It's up to you. Neither are better than the other, though some people do have a preference. For instance I prefer to find someone in person rather than online bc I find it hard to trust that people online are actually who they say they are. I guess that's something you could consider when trying to decide. If you chose to do online, just be careful, very careful. If you chose to do in person, you don't have to worry about getting cat fished.

[Opinion Owner]

At least not as much

[WhitneySnow]

Wait for a guy irl to ask you out. Or ask him out if there’s a guy you like.

[Asker]

Only on attract black guys. It upsets me real bad.
I’m black I have little bit of white in me by the way

[WhitneySnow]

I’m sure there’s a nice Black guy out there who would really be into you

[Asker]

No every black guy who liked me calls women bitches 24/7 or wants to hit a girl

[WhitneySnow]

Shit. There must be some nice Black guys out there. Find one who’s going to college to be a doctor. Or a lawyer.

[Asker]

I do go to college all the black guys girls bitches or hoes

[WhitneySnow]

Damn. That sucks. Wish I had better advice for you.

[Asker]

It’s okay thank you

[SolivagantRises]

I wouldn't recommend looking for one on a dating app. You will attract all kinds of weirdos who are basically just there looking to get laid, unless that's your goal too. Ask a friend for help, maybe she can introduce you to their friends or something. Much more reliable in that sense.

[Asker]

My friend wanted me to date a black guy on drugs then she complained I don’t like black guys

[SolivagantRises]

Lol. Look for better friends first.

[OtterMan68]

you're too young for a dating app. Just find groups of people your age group doing things you like, be yourself, and have fun with them and let it happen naturally,

It's not that uncommon for an 18 year old to not be in a relationship.

Whatever you do, don't come across as desperate. 1) it's a turn off to a lot of guys, and 2) you can be taken advantage of

[Mr_twoface]

If you want boyfriend, mingle and chat to people, who will fall for you and not your body!

If you want to begin with having casual meaningful sex (and then maybe getting to know the person deeper) then use dating apps.

[DextroShade]

Dating apps are for sex and will get you put in the recreational use only category. There are plenty of suitable men around you you can date. Also, it is on you to ask for something serious, not the men.

[patrick994]

If you are nice looking you don't need dating apps or waiting, try to get acquainted from the real.

[lightbulb27]

meet people in person, get out and work and meet people. try new things.

[Berethor]

She can try OkCupid, she can look for a boyfriend in GAG too, if she is not anonymous. :)

[Iron_Man]

Why do you need a boyfriend for what reason reason for sexual or just companionship you’re awful young

[Asker]

Just companionship😄

[Iron_Man]

Oh ok cool

[Asker]

Why is 18 too young to be in a relationship? I know 13-15 and younger in a relationship

[Iron_Man]

Kids are kids at that age they have no business having sex and nine times out of 10. The boyfriend’s going to pressure the girl for it

[Asker]

Okay

[Asker]

What’s the right age to date?

[Iron_Man]

Around college age, when you’re more mature and sharper and don’t fall for the tricks

[Alex-Snow]

Hold off on the app. Maybe ask a guy out that u like

[Asker]

They only be black guys who calls when bitches and hoes 24/7

[Alex-Snow]

Then if they do that they are losers. Hopefully you will find someone who has more manners

[handsomelad70]

Why? You're little more than a CHILD !!! Read and hopefully follow OtterMan68's fatherly advice, young lady.

[shortster]

You can use a dating app to find a boyfriend; but you need to be aware of the pitfalls of dating apps. Especially with scammers and f-boys.

[nawtee_me]

Dating apps are for hookups so if you want to have sex then yes use an app….

[Zlantur2]

It depends on what you like, it's not about your age. Do you like meeting people? Then go out. Do you enjoy texting before meeting? Then chat online.

[Sameone]

Welcome to the world 😂 lol

[Asker]

It’s not funny it’s really sad

[Sameone]

Don't weary you didn't see nothing you still have to work whit
Lair's
cheating
people use you only for your body
Sex fetish...

[war_daddy]

go to starbucks near a university

[Asker]

What about dating app?

[war_daddy]

they suck

[Asker]

Anything else I can do?

[war_daddy]

the starbucks thing should be enough if you're serious about it

[Asker]

So I walk into Starbucks and look for a boyfriend? What do I say to the guy?

[war_daddy]

you just go in and chill while you wait for a guy to talk to you

[Asker]

Oh thanks

[war_daddy]

np, gl

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Wait.

[Slim57]

Ask for one