Guys, this one is for you. What is your experience dating much younger women (around 15 + years age gap)?

[Heera]

First of all: i am only talking about people of consenting age, not even lower than 23.

How is the age gap impacting your sex life?

How do they compare to older partners you had? Positives and negatives accepted

Is there any difference between having sex with a 44 year old woman vs a 27 old woman?

Do you think emotionally you can connect with someone so young?

Can’t wait to hear your feedback!

Updates

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Update for clarity: this is directed to older men that had relationships with significantly younger women

[Finchie40]

I had better experiences with younger girls’ compared to girls’ my age or older , Not that age really matters to me , but to some extent it does when it comes to maturity , but all that really matters , is the chemistry and connection her and I have together and how we both compliment each other , The younger girls’ I dated told
Me they liked the way I listened to them and respected them , compared to guys’ her age, They would say they felt closer to me because of that. I like younger girls’ mainly because they made
Me feel wanted and valued and appreciated, they didn’t hesitate to be in my arms and kept
Me happy in the bedroom as much as possible and they didn’t hesitate to dress sexy for me Compared to girls’ my age or older , that have a lot of negativity inside themselves , from all the drama they dealt with in their previous relationships. Their sex drive wasn’t as high as a younger girls’ and from my experiences with girls’ my age or older, they were more fed up with life in general and were mostly miserable , over being happy. They only wanted things to go her way or no way , I just experienced girls’ going through menopause and that changed my mind about being with a girl my age or older , I am only focusing on younger girls’ now lol

[Avicenna]

Not much difference in sex between those two ages (somewhat bigger difference with a 20–21-year-old). Better blow jobs, though.

Maturity levels do not always match chronological age, but there is a difference there. Again, not so much between a 26–27-year-old woman and a 40-year-old woman and 20-21 and 40. If you have some things in common with them, the age difference isn't as big a deal as you might think.

[BonzoInBitburg]

My wife is 20 years younger. She's an old soul and we don't notice the age difference. We both active and adventurous and it's nice to have someone who can keep up. I think if you notice an age gap, it probably won't work

[BarryLiverstone]

When I’m over 45 I can come back to answer this question. But I can’t imagine dating someone that young once I’m so old. Like why? We wouldn’t have much in common and I would be much more mature than she is.


Isn’t that almost like a grandpa dating his daughter?

[Heera]

I used to think the same as you. Then boom i fell in love with someone 20 y older than me..
I was curious on the men perspective in similar situations

[BarryLiverstone]

Success that you fell in love. How long have you known him and are you living together?

[shortster]

I feel like the older women have alterior motives. Sex was more enjoyable with a younger woman. The younger women seemed to be more interested in developing a relationship. Whereas the older women were more interested in just having sex; less foreplay, less cuddling, and less time going out on dates.

[RavVid]

I can't talk about a 15+ age gap but early 20's girls do seem to have more joi de vive.

I think you hit it off or not regardless of the age gap.

[loveslongnails]

I would not choose to have a "relationship" with a woman who's significantly younger OR older. I'd be friends, activity buddies, fuck-buddies or friends with benefits's with them, but no romantic relationship.

[Anonymous]

I did it once, we still talk sometimes but the sex was definitely better, she just thought she had more to explore being so young, the generation gap was not a problem, people do give strange looks though and think they could be your daughter

[BarryLiverstone]

Not strange to think someone who appears 20 years younger is your daughter.

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone except I’m white and she was Latina

[BarryLiverstone]

Still seems ok. I’m mixed and skin color doesn’t matter much

[Opinion Owner]

@BarryLiverstone but it was obvious we weren’t related and Latin women look younger than they are so that didn’t help, she didn’t care though

[Anonymous]

A bad Idea. Generally any gap larger than 9 years. The statistics are not with you. I thought I could make a 15 yr. Gap work once. I was wrong and would not do it again.

[Heera]

Would love to hear from your experience if you don’t mind giving some details

[Opinion Owner]

Basically when you get larger than 9 years., a decade. You're most likely NOT at the same place in life. And that is a relationship in a nutshell. Life is a journey. And a relationship is journey walked together. To me she was the woman I never found in my youth. To her I was the stability she lacked. It was doomed from the start. But that's the problem with humans sometimes (a lot of times actually) we ignore every red flag because we like the feelings we have in the moment. We should have been friends, but never should have been partners.

[Rich1975]

Age is really just a number, once your an adult, although compatibility is of great importance; i. e. that you have common interests. However, the other question is 'how will it be 20 or 30 years from now?' if you are committed to the LTR

[exitseven]

I have a pretty low body count but the biggest age gap I ever had was 5 years.

[Alex-Snow]

I'm 18 and have always had sexual relations with girls around my age so far

[deesee25]

18 is consenting age you can't just say nothing under 23 your excluding like 5 years which datacylm shows men find early 20s women most attractive anyways.

[jahaims]

If you are compatible romantically with that age gap the older person is immature

[dolemite58]

The girl in her 20s will have a nicer body in general

[Heera]

Stating the obvious 😂

[dolemite58]

It needs to be stated lol

[Luckycharms12]

No experience there normally year or two age gap was when dated older

[Anonymous]

If it ever happens, I'll let ya know but, I VERY SERIOUSLY doubt it EVER will.

[Opinion Owner]

So far, my biggest age gap is 5 years and 13 days.

[OddBeMe]

Never done it. Only dated friends.

[robhazelnut]

None.

[robhazelnut]

Whoops, just read the update. The question doesn't apply to me.