Hi everyone I'm new here, I found this website while roaming around and thought I join 😊. Treat me good lol.
Here is my first question 😊
So I met this guy a month ago. We’re texting almost eveyday and go on dates like once a week. He’s really sweet and we get along really well. However except for us flirting and hugging hello/goodbye, nothing else is happening. Sometimes it feels like we’re just good friends. Should I make the first move?
Hey welcome! Don't worry, we don't bite lol. As for your question, it kinda sounds like y'all are moving kinda slow so far. But maybe that's just how he likes to take things at first until he really gets to know someone. Some guys like to take it slow.
But also maybe he's just shy and doesn't want to mess things up by coming on too strong. You said the dates are going well and you text a lot, so it doesn't seem like he just wants to be friends. I'd say if you really like him, maybe you could gently make the first move next time - nothing crazy, but like a little kiss goodnight or something. That might give him the green light to step things up without feeling rushed.
The worst that could happen is he's not ready and needs more time. But at least then you'll know where you stand! And he'll be flattered you made the first move, trust me. Just do what feels right. Communication is important too - maybe have an honest chat about both wanting more if things stay too friend-like. Good luck, hope it works out! Let me know what happens.
Hey, welcome to being a gag user and hopefully you will continue to have a joyful life without being hooked onto this site like many of us seems to be :D
As for your question, yes take the first move since it seems to be going slower than you are hoping for. From a guys point of view, why he hasn't taken the step, can be because out of respect he doesn't want to come on to fast and push you away. He could be shy or he wants to take things slow. Just know that communication is the key in any relationship, so feel free to open up and be transparent with him about feelings and emotions!
Best wishes to you guys!
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I say yeah, make the first move. You know what you want, so go get it
Hi! I’m pretty new too! Yes, go for it if you like the guy. 😌
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If you don't mind the sort of guys who need to have the initiative taken for them (and to be clear that isn't necissarily a bad thing), go for it.
Why do you want to rush things with him. Just take your time. If he's not pushing you to do anything, he really likes you and respects you. That's very rare to find a guy like that
Yes, make the move. Some guys need a little push.
if you want something, then go for it, simple as that
Yes make the first move, wish someone was asking about me like this😒
Definitely you should make the first move 💯
u Yes.
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Fuck off tourist!!
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