Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI believe depends on the guy.
Now it is known that men generally notice looks, so if look is approved they'll dive into knowing and learning about her. Either directly or indirectly as approaching her or through her body language.
Most men seem to fall in the direct approach to know her, while those (shy) ones will analyze and try to understamd her personality indirectly or study her from her body language. And maybe the lesst are some men who give some time doing eye contact (body language study & with some seduction) then approach.
So what do we notice.. is probably the question of which forst female body part do you as a man notice. Well, that depends on every and each man of what they think they can measure a woman by.
Let me speak for myself at least.
Depends if I'm looking for cheching out/flirting/picking up, or for general relationship such as work.
If for checking out/flirting/picking up, I'll check the breasts first. If she is showing (not cleaving) but pushed outwards until these lines apper -even if just a little-.. I don't know what that is exactly called. Anyway, then I at least undrrstand that she is showing off her beauty, and she doesn't mind me taking a glance and maybe sending a message of: "Wow, you're pretty". That's the general attitude. Now she may allow me only to look and pass my eyes, or maybe enjoy the look, or maybe allow and enjoy eye fucking & flirting.
I may eye fuck & flirt even girls I may not like the personality of, as in I don't even care much about studying their behavior. Of course her look has to be naturally seducing, not forced/applies prettiness as I call it. So face is also included to fully study makeup and get a perception of her acceptance as well as if she is worth approaching as a person or just the heat of sexual tension and hookup limit.
If for work or general relationship, then I'll mainly focus on the whole outfit, face, posture, and body language (personality and how much is she accepting me).
I don't check them out, because I've heard a girl mentioning to other girls that as she enters the department or this guy sees her, he stares at her and somehow creeps her by always and constantly checking her and so.
I say: As if he just can't believe his eyes, can't control his feelings.. etc. I categorize him as the direct approach guy I previously mentioned.
For me, since I check out girls I have to be clear in my intentions (even if non-verbally) that I'm doing so or at least that I'm enjoying or appreciating her view. And later on take it to a platonic or so relationship, where my main base I work on is sexual tension and "entertainment/casual friendship".
That's not something I'll do with someone I'm daily with as in work, or someone I want a good/healthy or even just say normal relationship with.14 Reply
Opinion Owner+1 yLol, sorry for the typos. I didn't revise it.
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wow thanks for all the answers! u definitely broadened my horizons (as i didn’t know u’re separating girls - just for flirting or sth serious)
and don’r worry for the typos:))
Opinion Owner+1 yAll other guys have almost said the same. I just explained in detail. See how many mention eyes.
And how if she accepts that, she's into it.
One mentioned if she's an attention whore.
Another said, female form, then eyes.
So, first if body is appealing they'll go forth to her attitude if accepting or not [eyes], where this 2nd stage simeltanuously goes with studying her personality [attention whore] as the body language + outfit/overall appearance or so mentioned.
I'm constantly deeply studying myself as a guy as objectively I can, and so to girls. I try learning and understanding them so that I can properly and better deal with them.- +1 y
wow u’re well raised and seem to be a good guy!:)
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3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. You could have the same girl in 20 different scenarios and you're going to look at something different each time for me I look at the eyes and smile I look at her eyes because if she's looking back at you she's talking she's saying something with her eyes and if I like her her eyes will tell me who she is on the inside and that's the most important thing the outside is all just an extra bonus but the inside that's where true beauty comes from
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3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. From a distance, usually they notice curves. If you have a striking figure from a distance they’ll keep looking to see what else they like.
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wow interesting!
+1 yin my case, the color of my hair :D
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+1 yThe first thing is the female form. Then, closer inspection of her eyes. The eyes are the gateway to a woman's soul.
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+1 ySome people will say the same feature every time.. Like the eyes for example, and yes. I notice her eyes too, but I think I would have to go with whatever her most prominent feature was.
Let's see she's attractive, but she is wearing a clown nose (go with it for the sake of this response) It's the clown nose I'm going to notice first!
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+1 yPersonality, Face expression, Height, Smarter/ Body with Mussels ( Don't like Much Slim today), Hairs, Eyes. Further if the Vice is really charming I can personally compromise on any thing above except Weight 😉.
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What is your ideal weight and why?
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For me ideal weight is 65-75 Kg. As far as the Weight is according to BMI level, it's acceptable. The reason is increased body weight means the person is not managed and needs more attention to get happy life...
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Haha funny
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Increased weight means they are enjoying their money peacefully. Sometimes, they are happy and are not stressed with anything. Not talking about people with eating disorder
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I haven't say anything about eating. Yes they will have good sex life at least with weight according to BMI.
To be perfectly honest, unless something really stands out, I am always drawn to women's legs. Yes, I look at eyes, smile, hair, and general shape, but I find legs can be the most alluring feature on a woman.
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+1 yFace, sometimes il just see a girls face and boom I have feelings. Now there are lots of shallow people who start with tits/ass but that isn't as important as face and personality.
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agreed! face is far more important than body
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+1 yDepends on how they cross my path.
At this point, the first thing i notice is their voice. A woman has to speak to me to get my full attention.20 Reply - 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yThe first thing we notice is her figure to make sure she passes the fitness test.
Other things like her apparent age, how pretty her face is, and if she fucked up her body with piercings and tattoos are noticed shortly after.
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+1 yshape/height
skin tone
hair color
clothing/accessories
intelligence is determined by examining her face
that is the order in which we study
10 Replyfour things that i care.. eyes color and shape, boobs, belly and but i formulated 1E3B :D
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what’s 1E3B?
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hahahah ok thanks for explanation!
+1 yGuess it depends. If she is dressed like a woman her hair/face/hands. If she dressed like a whore her clothes
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+1 yTheir hair or their ass, what they're wearing and then their face.
20 Reply 720 opinions shared on Dating topic. Glasses.
I don't speak for anyone else here, mind you.20 Reply- 615 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yhow nice her hair is
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+1 yIf I can, her feet. But if she's wearing close toed shoes, than her fingers
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+1 yAs for me it’s a pretty face, eyes and beautiful long hair.
20 Reply 1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. First is their smile, then their boobs and to be honest I do look them up and down before returning to their smile.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yJust glancing: Sexy figure first, then face, then outfit, then hair, then legs.
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Opinion Owner+1 yIf a girl doesn’t have a sexy figure, I don’t bother checking out the rest of her.
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cool! what kind of legs are we talking about?
It depends if the girl is walking towards you or moving away lol just kidding
My attention goes to face and the hands like if she has long nails bonus
10 ReplyWeight. ie; do they take care of themselves? And face.
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+1 yTheir laugh and voice can determine how kind and funny they are
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+1 yIt’s eyes for me.👀
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i agree eyes are really important feature!
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Nice, glad you agree.
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+1 yI notice her smile first
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cute!
+1 yGenerally face. Specifically eyes
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agreed!
Usually they are checking out my tits 💃
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I don't blame them ;)
646 opinions shared on Dating topic. Whatever sticks out about her.
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No pun intended I guess...
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@The_Sexpert Yes, no pun intended.. For Examphe OhSheeT has a beard. The beard stuck out.
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+1 yLips. I notice the lips and eyes first.
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+1 yTheir hair, Their eyes, Their smile.
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+1 ySmile, eyes, complexion, hair, body
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+1 yHer boobs at first
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+1 yStyle. Figure. Hair. Face.
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+1 ySpeaking for myself is the eyes.
10 Reply 6.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. If she is an attention whore or not
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am okay thanks for answering
+1 ytits and legs
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what kind of legs do u like?
eyes. hair. ass. legs.
10 Replyher face and body
10 Reply775 opinions shared on Dating topic. Her eyes and her smile!
10 Reply777 opinions shared on Dating topic. I guess their figure
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+1 yFace first. Then her hair
00 Reply544 opinions shared on Dating topic. Her face.
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+1 yNeck
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+1 yBody type
10 Reply307 opinions shared on Dating topic. Eyes
10 ReplyThe eyes!!
10 Reply4.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Her face
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+1 yTheir chastity
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+1 yBody
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+1 yHair and face
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yHer demeanor.
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+1 yI notice my userid
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