Girls, Does a guy have to like Ariana grande for you to date him?

[Anonymous]

So basically I had to go to Ariana grande concerts with her I wasn’t allowed to watch sports, I had to watch dating shows with her

[Anonymous]

Gosh, I wish I knew what would be the right thing to say that could help you move on from this woman. It’s been quite some time now, and you’re still ruminating over how bad the relationship was. Feel free to object but I don’t think these questions and answers are helping you at all, it’s as if you stop by here to vent about another bad aspect of the relationship which popped into your head, then we’ll see you in a week or so. This is just a toxic cycle I don’t think anyone can help you with, although we have tried.

[DishLady]

What does Ariana Grande have to do with whether you like a girl or she likes you? (Maybe add some detail to the question…)

[DishLady]

Oh… Nevermind, my screen was lagging. She wants you to go to stuff SHE likes but then you’re missing stuff YOU like.

You have to compromise. If you go to something she likes, she should come to something you like.

[laly520]

I don't even listen to her songs

[Anonymous]

There should be compromise in a relationship

[Asker]

There was none she would throw a temper tantrum if she couldn’t have her way

[Opinion Owner]

She sounds like a bad girl

[Opinion Owner]

Lol sorry

[Asker]

So I suck at reading people and what initially appealed to me was her maturity and serious approach to life and it’s why I chose to date her but obviously based on everything I’m telling you that came off the rails quickly

[Opinion Owner]

I think when you have an open and serious conversation with you she may come around

[Opinion Owner]

Her* not you

[Opinion Owner]

And be honest

[Little_Bumblebee]

Uhm... No?

[Asker]

Yeah she always had to be near me and she hated sports which meant i basically couldn’t watch any games. She also wanted someone who would go to Ariana grande concerts with her.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Personally, yeah I would like to be with my partner when possible, and enjoy stuff together.
If I loved Ariande, yeah I would love for him to join, but if he hated her, then I would find someone else to bring. If he loved sports, I would do my best to be a part of that with him - even though I'm not a huge fan. So compromise.

I would never force him to not spend time on the things he enjoys.

[Asker]

Yeah it was like she was trying to make me her gay best friend

[Little_Bumblebee]

Don't be with someone if they won't let you be you.
I would never date someone if they wanted me to stop enjoying manga and anime, then he wouldn't be for me.