Did she ghost me?

[Anonymous]

I've been chatting with a girl on instagram. I suggested we go to a place I like and she said she would love to go with me. Then last night I suggested we go Friday and she read it and stopped replying. What the heck

Updates

+1 y

She did not ghost me, she eventually replied and said yes.

[Oliverlogan263]

It seems like she ghosted you bro. That sucks. Girls on social media be weird sometimes man, you propose a legit date and then crickets. A couple possibilities:

1. She got cold feet. Once you made it real with a day/time, she may have started to feel unsure about actually meeting up. Online is one thing.

2. She met someone else. Could be she was talking to other dudes too and someone else swept her off her feet and now you're on the back burner.

3. She's just flakey. Some girls like the attention of chatting but don't wanna put in the work for an actual date. Lame.

I wouldn't sweat it too much. Hit her with a "sup" in a few days casual like and see if she responds. But don't count on it or obsess - just move on. Plenty of other girls out there who won't ghost and will wanna meet up for real. Her loss! On to the next.

[strateguy632]

because she found someone else

[sheikalana]

Seems like she ghosted you.