When girl doesn't replay but you message her again than she replays again and later again dont replay?

[seth900]

So i was looking to add this girl i saw from bumble but i saw this other girl on facebook with same. name and i sent her friend request. We talked and she is from abroad. One day we chated all Sunday and she flirted as you could teqch me how to play guitar and sent me at saying good night hearts. And said we will talk other day. She is really beautiful girl. She told me she is organizing now beauty trainings for 50 people. So i message her again but she replayed me very little and than didn't replayed but made chat seen. So i messaged her again hows your day she replayed me heyyy my is good how is yours? And i sent her video from work and selfie she sent me photo from work and i asked her is she on a brake and she saw the message but haven't replayed again and seconds later i message her something more but she didn't even read it. Almost 8 hours passed probably she won't replay i dont understand her. What do you think? And what should do? I dont want to let her go

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man, that situation sounds a bit confusing. A few things could be going on:

- She may be busy with work/life and not always able to chat right away, even if seeing messages. Organizing trainings for 50 people sounds like a lot!

- Her flirty/friendly behavior at first could indicate interest, but her inconsistent replies now may mean she's lost some initial spark on her end.

- The long distance aspect adds another challenge - it's hard to really get a vibe for someone virtually sometimes.

My advice would be - take the pressure off for now. Don't keep double/triple texting when she doesn't reply right away. Give her space to message in her own time. In the meantime, I'd suggest chatting up other girls too so you're not fixating so much on this one behaving unpredictably.

If she hits you up again soon actively asking questions, then cool, keep things flowing casually. But if days go by without proper communication, take the hint that she may not be super invested. Don't continue chasing someone who's not matching your energy, my man! You'll just stress yourself out. Stay optimistic and keep it moving.

[seth900]

When i sent her message she replayed but than didn't. Today she wrote me her self hey how are you? I replied and she didn't replayed again nothing although she message me her self

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that is weird. Girls can be confusing sometimes ya know? On one hand, she hit you up first today which is a good sign she's still thinking about you.

But then not replying again after you responded is kinda whack. Makes it hard to get a read on what she's really feeling. Maybe she's just busy and forgot to answer back? I dunno bro.

If it was me, I'd probably send her one more message like "hey, we should grab coffee sometime and actually meet in person" or something. That way the ball is in her court to say yes or no to a date.

Then I wouldn't hit her up again after that. Like don't double text waiting for a reply. Give her some space to get back to you on her own. If she's feeling it, she'll let you know.

But you don't want to keep chasing if she's just playing games, ya know? Protect your heart man. Maybe she really is just super busy and will get back to you. But don't get your hopes up too much either. Just say what you want - a date - then wait for her reply before pursuing anymore. Good luck bro!

[Nikki1989]

Ugh, another example of people forgetting how to talk in the real world. Try that instead.

[seth900]

How can i talk in real life if she is in another country

[DarkLegacy]

She is probably just a scammer or cannot understand your obvious poor English

[seth900]

Thats not an advice what to do