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When she come to his girlfriend job she’ll act weird or look at her. She’ll never say anything.
Why would a girl who knows a guy watch his girlfriend? She tried to record or take pic of his girlfriend? She would come to his girlfriend job?
Anonymous
(18-24) 
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That's really weird behavior on the girl's part. It kinda seems like she's not over the guy and maybe still has feelings for him or something. Trying to record his girlfriend or take pics of her is just creepy and crossing some major lines.
I wonder what her deal is? Like is she just crazy jealous and wants to spy on his new girl? Or does she have some other motives? Either way, showing up at the girlfriend's job and acting weird/staring at her is super sketchy and not ok at all. That girl needs to get a grip and move on.
If I was the guy, I'd be worried she might try to start drama or cause problems between me and my girlfriend. I'd definitely let my girl know what's going on so she's not caught off guard if that girl tries something. And I'd tell the stalker girl very clearly that she needs to back off and stop harassing my girlfriend, or else I'll get the authorities involved if she doesn't leave us alone.
Some girls just can't accept when it's over I guess, but taking it to that level is never acceptable. I feel bad for his girlfriend having to deal with that stalker showing up at her work. That would freak me out big time! I hope the guy stands up for his girl and gets rid of that crazy stalker for good.
Does that mean he was secretly fooling with her for her to act like that?
Before my partner and I started dating, he followed a girl on Instagram who attended the same high school. This girl acted strangely around me before we were dating. She was acting she was taking pic or recording me. The next day he show up.
The next day after I started a new job, this same girl showed up at my workplace, which was unusual at April 27. This happened again when I got a different new job. When me and him when days of contact.
On April 30th, my partner told me he had been in place when she was supposed be on a trip and he said come back home immediately. Later, the girl posted on Instagram that she had been in Altana on March 31 and April 6th.
Days later, my partner mentioned having a fight with his family about moving to Uk The girl had posted about being in Uk on March 10th. The next day, my partner said he was in Altana.
The girl then posted pictures from Altana on March 31 and April 27, the same day she came to my job. On April 30th, my partner said he had been in Altana and came back. It’s 3 hours from us. I noticed he texts me and it see me when it’s something involving her but he never mentioned her to me. How I find out about her is looking through his following. This girl is weird she went to prom with her friend girl boyfriend. Her and the girl are still friends.
Oooh girl, based on all that tea you just spilled, it really seems like your man was doing WAY more than just "fooling" with that other girl. Those timelines are way too coincidental, and his behavior shady AF.
Some red flags that jump out:
- Why was she so obsessed with watching you from the start if they were "just friends"? She was clealry threatened.
- Him conveniently always being "out of town" on the same dates she posted about? Total lies.
- Never mentioning her name but clearly texting a lot when she's involved? Major secret keeping.
- Following her on socials and clearly still in contact all this time? Not over her.
Girl I am so sorry, but it really sounds like they were hooking up behind your back the whole time. All the evidence points to them being way more than friends. He's been lying to your face about where he was and what he was doing.
You do NOT deserve that disrespect, sneaking around, and mind games. As your friend, I say dump his ass immediately! You can do so much better than a cheating scrub like him. Block and delete - don't look back! And don't let that messy girl get in your head anymore either.
You've got this - stay strong! Let me know if you need any support getting through this. You'll find a real one who treats you right.
Sorry I meant to say she went to prom with her girl friend boyfriend
Woah no way, that prom thing makes it even weirder. Like she's out here messing around with taken people? Not a good look.
But for real, I'd be freaked too if some rando was stalking me at work and following all my boyfriend's moves on social media. That's just not normal behavior.
I say you gotta have a straight up talk with your man and get to the bottom of what's really going on here. Tell him all the stuff you noticed doesn't add up and you need honesty. His reaction will say a lot - get ready to read between the lines of whatever excuse he tries to pull.
If he doesn't give you a clear explanation with nothing to hide, I wouldn't even bother wasting your time with him anymore sis. You deserve way better than some shady dude rolling with weird stalker chicks on the side.
Keep me posted on what goes down, and know you've got my support no matter what. You'll get through this!
I forget to add the same time she was acting weird towards is when she posted on TikTok she had a boyfriend
I will update you on her
I don’t know why she’s obsessed try to find out
She knew my boyfriend from high school
That's a stalker 🌚
I snap on her on her social media
I think she had a thing secretly with my boyfriend
I cussed her out for her BS
I don't know what BS is but be careful because u don't know what her intentions are, and tell ur boyfriend about her
BS means bullshit
Thanks
It’s too late now I told her if she keep doing this I will beat her ass. Me and him broke up. He knows her
U broke up because u said u will beat her ass 🤔 I think they were in a relationship before u and they haven't ended it yet
Who needs secrets in their relationship, his loss
I broke up with him because of her and because he was a liar
I been trying to break up him and he wouldn’t let me. I wanted to break up with him because he’s a liar, user, and cheater.
I don’t get her. If she is fooling with him why watch me? If you know still going to fool with him?
Also she was watching me before me and him were dating. She started watching more when me and him became a couple. They knew each other in high school.
Maybe they had plans for u 💁♂️🤔
What plans?
What types of plans exactly?
I said maybe, no Idea, but maybe they wanted to scam u or something 🤔
I thought they was fooling around
All that matters she better stop acting she trying to record me or she’s getting a major ass whooping. she's a coward. I’ll warn her again.
I noticed about she won’t say anything to me when all this happened. She acting like a coward.
Don't mind her if she's keeping a distance
This is the past now 😁
She does this off and on
Nevermind her, or just do exactly what she does with u and see what her reaction will be
She very scary also. She act like she’s recording time for me to record her.
She’s the type she’ll stop and then she’ll come back. She'll be back soon.
Ur not scared of her r u?🤔
Nope
Then why not doing it 😁
What you mean?
I mean do what is she doing with u 😁
I will