Misunderstanding before dating?

[_Senorita_]

How to clear the misunderstandings between the two people created by others before the dating starts? I mean if neither of them wants to start or reciprocate because of the horrible past... Or cuz of trust issues... or If a girl is beautiful the guy maybe thinks that she is taken ( like false rumours)... What i mean to say is that both r perfect for each other but their circumstances isn't!!!

[ManOnFire]

This question feels sus because it's not very transparent and doesn't feel honest. What are the "misunderstandings" between the two people?

[_Senorita_]

Misconceptions about each other through someone else!!!
That results in neither of them initiates..

[ManOnFire]

So this is where you both have to make the mature decision to think for yourselves and find out about each other. This is the problem with people already, they will easily listen to things people say about one person, without ever trying to know them for yourself.

[_Senorita_]

Okay thanks 👍🏼