Black women dating?

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I'm a black woman and I am 26 years old. I posted an ad on a dating site. There are so many white guys interested in dating black women but barely any black guys interested in black women. Do black guys not care about black women.

abc3643 · Accepted Answer

It might simply be a question of numbers... that there are more White guys available than Black guys.

This sort of reason - being a minority - is why there are often apps or sites for niche dating.

What I mean by "minority" isn't just racial or ethnic, but can be anything.

For instance, job sites are a lot like dating sites; there are going to be a lot of things that you don't want to see or care about. So, you have to use a filter.

But sometimes the site or app itself _IS_ the filter!

Example: There is a website called theladders. com for those seeking jobs that pay over $100k / year. So, if you are already in that income bracket, you might not want to bother going to Indeed. com or some other mainstream job or career website, but instead go to theladders. com to avoid having to filter out all those lower-waged jobs you have no interest in.

Well, the same thing can be said about dating: It might save a person time and effort to go to a more specific dating site.

Let's take you for instance... This very question of yours wondering where all the Black guys are is a legitimate question in its own right and the numbers issue might be the answer to your question. But, the fact that you explicitly mentioned "Black guys" might imply you are looking for Black guys. Well, many of them might be at an Afro-American-focused dating site. Being a honkey myself, I don't know of any, but I strongly suspect they exist. So, if your focus is on finding available Black men, maybe that's the way to go.

Here's an example of what I am talking about regarding niche dating: This site is explicitly for interracial dating.
https://www.afroromance.com/

OK, found one which is focused on the Black community:
https://www.blackcupid.com/

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Good luck and let me know if I can help further!

zagor · Accepted Answer

Likely the site you use has far more white guys than black guys. Maybe check out some sites with different demographics?

SweetJoyGirl · Accepted Answer

Who cares whether they care about us or not?  There is nothing wrong with a white king, anyways. As long as he loves you for you and will take care of you. 💜

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Black guys always treat black women like crap.

texascollegegirl · Answer

I bet it's just the site you are on. Maybe it's very few Black men there or they are there looking for something more casual and not that into dating. I'm into hooking up with (some) Black guys, but I can tell you even though almost all will want casual sex with attractive white girls and a lot of us want that from the right Black men, most still want a strong, long-term relationship with a beautiful Black woman who has values they would want in a relationship. They know a lot of us white girls don't have those values, or maybe we need to get it out of our system. They might not want the relationship right now or they might want it but also to do likethey do with me on the side, but that's because men are men. I learned men can't be trusted about whether they have a woman or a ring. But tome it seems like they still love and respect Black women. Maybe some feel misunderstood. Some have told me stories about how they feel Black women often judge them or look down on them. So they say at leastwithmethey know where they stand and why we are hooking up. Like, nothing I say could ever hurt them, but the wrong word from a Black woman they trust can cut to the bone.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm white and I prefer to date black women over white women. Black women are just more beautiful and sweeter

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

We handsome Bradys ( older black golden glamour boys) aren't interested in fat broads, and FAR TOO MANY black women are FREAKIN' obese !!!

Anonymous · Answer

Why do you want people who don't want you

Walksbehindtherows · Answer

Absolutely not

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