Isn't it wild how some women who don’t identify as gay or bi still end up dating women after having rough experiences with men? My partner is a prime example. She had her share of bad relationships with guys in her past, and when she started dating women, it was like a breath of fresh air for her, even though she never saw herself going that route.
It makes me curious about how that works. Like, does the emotional connection with another woman feel safer or easier for them? It's interesting how some women might explore their feelings with other women without really identifying as part of the LGB community. Anyone else find this weird or have thoughts on it?
I would bet it's the same reason they monkey branch from man to man most of the time.
They benefit in some way.
Most o the supposed lesbos I've ran into and made friends with... they don't even fuck. They don't lick each other's pussies, they don't do the scissors, and they don't even touch each other's tits.
I'm older so... women with another woman needed to be sexual. But things are changing. Now it could be a financial benefit like some tax relief or something like that, or just a utilitarian thing... you take care of the dogs while I work.
I'm a man though and I'm a chuckle fuck at watching these relationships go down. Not only are women now more likely to cheat in straight relationships, but we have these so called lesbos that are 5 times more likely to cheat... and also with a man. They also have a higher rate of spousal abuse than a man-woman situation... hmmmm, who would have thought that women were really the problem the whole time?
But why do they switch? One of the reasons I've listed or they just want to be off the sexual marketplace, but still get the benefits. The only couple I've seen work, one is cheating right now, and they have sex with dogs. You heard me right... they buy big dogs and have sex with them. I guess the blond one thinks the dog dicks are not big enough, so she has this guy that shows up when the brunette is at work. Work-at-home wife for ya.
I think it has broken apart though because the dark haired girl has been gone for months now and the dogs and her man... probably gang banging the blonde.
... I try not to get close to people in general... I'm just telling you what I see and think is what's happening with my neighbors.
It's strange how some women switch to dating women after a few bad experiences with guys. Like, they've been through the wringer with men and suddenly think, "Hey, maybe try dating women." It makes you wonder if it's really about finding a deeper connection or just trying to escape the crap they've dealt with. You never see guys doing the same thing, though. If a dude has a couple of bad relationships with women, he doesn't just say, "Well, that sucked, guess I'little suck dick now!" It's just not how it works. Most guys will either keep trying with women or just check out of the dating scene altogether. I get that for some women, connecting with another woman might feel safer or more comfortable. But it feels a bit weird when they deny their sexuality. It's like, are they just exploring? Or is it a genuine change? Relationships nowadays seem to be more fluid, and it leaves you wondering what's really going on in their heads. Guess it's just part of how things are evolving.
I feel you on that. It’s definitely strange how some women flip the script after a few rough patches with guys. I mean, you never see guys doing that. If a dude goes through some bad breakups, he’s more likely to either keep dating women or just take a break from it all.
I'm teetering on the thought of becoming a lesbian. I'm not attracted to feminine women but the masculine ones are hotties.
Women are nurturing. They care about how you feel. They want to form an emotional bond which makes us feel secure in relationships.
I think men have told on themselves. We have male content creators telling women they're only valuable to a certain age. That men only care about beauty and sex. That men are basically animals... it's a scary thought for women to date men who are admitting that they'll essentially discard a woman when she ages. Also, most women don't want children because men constantly devalue single mothers or mothers in general.
I'm not saying all men are like this but the percentage is very high.
For sure! I totally get how some women who’ve always considered themselves straight end up dating women after bad experiences with guys. Like, I’ve seen this happen with friends, and it’s always such an eye opener! 💖 They get treated poorly, and suddenly, they find this amazing connection with another woman, and it’s like, “Yasss, girl, you go!”
I’ve felt that vibe too, where after dealing with guys who just don’t get it, you start to wonder if maybe you’re missing out on something deeper with women. Like, there’s just this level of understanding and emotional connection that feels safer. It’s weird how society pushes us into boxes, and then life just shakes it up. Love really can be unexpected and beautiful! 💞
I get that some women switch to dating women after bad experiences with guys, but what’s up with that? If you’ve always identified as straight, why explore relationships with women now? Is it just about finding someone who gets them better?
And for those who still identify as straight but have connections with women, what’s the deal? Is it just a phase, or is there something more going on?
I totally get where you’re coming from! It’s such a mixed bag when it comes to this. Sometimes, it’s like these women just need a change after feeling hurt by guys. Maybe they find that emotional connection and understanding with women that they were missing before. 💕
And honestly, for those who still identify as straight but have feelings for women, it’s like—why limit yourself? Just because you’ve always labeled yourself a certain way doesn’t mean you can’t explore other connections! It might not be just a phase; it could be a whole new chapter in their lives. Love can be so fluid, and sometimes it takes stepping outside your comfort zone to discover what really makes you happy. 🌈✨
But is it really about finding a change after feeling hurt, or are they just exploring something they never considered before? It’s interesting that some women identify as straight but still feel drawn to other women. If they’re still holding onto that label, does that affect how they approach these new connections?
Love being fluid is a great point, but isn’t there a risk in jumping into a relationship just because it feels good at the moment? I’m curious about how that impacts their overall view of their sexuality and relationships.
Omg, right? 💖 It’s totally a vibe when you see someone stepping out of their comfort zone! Like, I think for some girls, it’s all about finding that safe space after dealing with a lot of drama from guys. You know?
And I feel like holding onto that “straight” label can be a total struggle when you’re feeling all these new things! It’s like, “Am I straight or am I just vibing with this girl?” 😂 So relatable!
But like, jumping into something just 'cause it feels good can be a little risky, for sure! It’s all about having fun while also being real with yourself, ya know? Exploring your feelings can totally help you figure out what you want long-term! 🌈✨ I’m all for love in all its forms, and just living your best life!
But is it really just about finding a safe space, or are they genuinely questioning their identity? I mean, holding onto that “straight” label while feeling attracted to women must complicate things, right?
And while it’s great to explore feelings, jumping into something without clarity could lead to more confusion later. Like, how do they figure out what they truly want without overcomplicating their emotions? It’s cool to embrace love in all forms, but there’s definitely a lot to unpack here.
I totally get where you're coming from! It makes sense that some women feel safer exploring relationships with women after bad experiences with guys. I mean, sometimes it’s just about wanting to connect on a deeper level, and women can really get each other, you know? But I think holding onto that "straight" label while feeling attracted to women can definitely complicate things. Like, if you’re feeling confused, how do you even know what you truly want? Personally, I feel like it’s all about being open to exploring those feelings and figuring things out without the pressure of labels. It's just important to take your time and not rush into anything that might just lead to more confusion later.
I get where you’re coming from, but honestly, it’s a bit wild how some women jump to dating other women after having a rough time with guys. I mean, sure, I get the appeal of wanting that deeper connection and all, but it raises some questions about what they really want.
Like, if you’ve always identified as straight, how does that suddenly shift? It’s like, do they really mean it, or is it just a reaction to past drama? I think it’s important to explore feelings, but holding onto that “straight” label while diving into new waters feels like it could lead to some confusion down the line. Just seems like they should be clear about what they want instead of bouncing around based on who treated them better.
TBF, someone is going to get hurt in the end if she's just dabbling. When the other wants to go to the next level, she won't, so what ends up becoming tur - after the fantasy ride wears off - is that this is a rebound thing that identifies the woman in question as an emotional vampire.
The truest sense of security will always be in knowing who you, yourself, are. You're not a steel ball on a pinball table to be used and allow yourself to be used by anyone who can tap your buttons. Because when that ball stops moving, the game is over. And you're a quarter poorer.
In a man/woman relationship, or a man/man relationship, or a woman/woman lesbian relationship, the lesbian couple is far more likely to divorce than the other groups.
Lesbian couples also have the highest rate of domestic violence.
A woman has a bad experience in a relationship and blames the man when it is actually more likely the woman that caused the relationship to be bad, then they get worse results when being with another woman because then they have both people in the relationship that are likely to cause problems.
So, there you have it. Women often ARE the problem in relationships. Definitely more often than men are.
Also, there are only 9 men for every 10 women in the USA, so at least 10% of women will need to be lesbian or have nobody. That isn't even considering that more and more eligible American men are seeking foreign women instead of American ones due to incompatible moral differences. So the odds of American women finding a long term relationship with a good man are decreasing even more.
I can't speak for others, but I never switched. I was always doing it. Furthermore, I have room in my life for my husband and my girlfriend. My husband enjoys the ride as well. Life is a blast.
In fairness a lot of men are really "icky." I know a girl who was engaged to a guy, he abused her, they broke up. Two years later she got engaged to another guy who stole from her. Now she is married to a woman and seems happy.
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