Why do males constantly put down my appearance whether I’m dating them or not?

[Itnykttn]

Then they want you to have nookie with them or give them nookie related favors after they made your self esteem so low to at you feel like a walking human garbage mistake?

[UnusualWeirdo]

Oh my God what kind of garbage are you hanging out with, you need new friends, they shouldn't be putting you down at all.

[Itnykttn]

I guess you are right. They seem so nice at first. Then they start putting me down. At first I don’t realize they’ll turn into this monster.

[UnusualWeirdo]

You don't need that kind of verbal abuse, please ditch them and find new guy friends, we're not all that bad.

[Itnykttn]

Thanks I’m glad to hear that :) I really hope I can find good men to be friends with.

[UnusualWeirdo]

You can just be careful guys are very fake at first, most just want sex and will play the long con

[Itnykttn]

That’s so scary to think about cause many as you said are just very nice at first. It’s so hard to deal with figuring them out but it’s also just part of life I guess where you have to be ready to cut someone off if they show they’re out to harm you

[UnusualWeirdo]

That's very true

[EnjoytheDay777]

They sound like insecure assholes, I'd ignore them

[Itnykttn]

Thanks. I have a bad habit of somehow trusting them at first when they’re nice then they start putting me down which hurts.

[EnjoytheDay777]

I'm sorry, that sucks. They're just low, taking advantage of your kindness like that. I hope you can meet better guys.

[Itnykttn]

Thanks ! I hope so too