Would you guys like it or am I annoying?

[Anonymous]

SO,

Long story here that I'll try to make short.

I'm 29, I've been dating this guy (30) again for coming on four months and we just made it official.

We had dated back in 2021 as well but for a handful of reasons, it just wasn't the right timing. But we remained in touch over the years (sometimes hooking up), but as a whole not able to leave each other alone.

So now that we are OFFICIAL, I can barely contain myself. This is literally my dream come true to be back together.

The question I have here though pertains to that. I am afraid of being a little too "much". He is very thoughtful and is a gestures guy. I know he cares very much. But not as big on being verbal about it. Whereas I am. Which is fine.

I just want to know if you guys would find it to be too much to be with someone who is more affectionate through message.

In person we have no issues. Over message though sometimes he just "likes" the ones where I gush too much.

Its not all the time. We don't text very constantly.

I don't know why I'm stressed. But just curious!

[WhitneySnow]

He just doesn’t know how to respond when you gush over text. But he really likes it and he really likes you.

Amazing. You’re one of those rare girls who hooked up with a guy and actually got him that way.

[Asker]

Yes! But I mean, we did date first for about 8 months. It was never purely a hookup situation

[WhitneySnow]

That’s good 😊

[IridescentWave]

If he hasn't complained about it, I don't see an issue. Him liking the messages sounds like he's showing support even if it's not his energy level. Sounds wholesome. Congratulations!

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't think it's annoying

[Anonymous]

Why is it your dream come true

[Asker]

He was the one i really always hoped it would work out with

[Opinion Owner]

Why? What’s special about them

[Asker]

I don't know. He really just left a mark on me in a good way. Just a special connection

[Opinion Owner]

What’s so special about them