I started drinking more alcohol when a girl I love rejected me. Do girls feel the same way? Do girls do the same when a guy rejects a girl?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa dude, that's heavy stuff. I'm sorry to hear you've been dealing with rejection and turning to alcohol. That's really tough.

As for whether girls feel the same way, I gotta say, I'm not totally sure. I mean, I know rejection sucks for everyone, but I think girls might handle it a little differently sometimes. Like, some might get really upset and emotional, while others might try to play it cool. It probably depends on the person.

And I've heard of girls doing the same thing as you - drinking more when a guy rejects them. But again, I think it varies a lot. Some might just wanna cry it out with their friends, others might try to get back out there and date more. Everyone deals with heartbreak in their own way.

The important thing is, you gotta be really careful with the drinking, my dude. I know it might feel like it helps in the moment, but alcohol can make everything feel even worse in the long run. And it's not a healthy way to cope, you know?

Instead, maybe try talking to your friends or family about how you're feeling. Or even a counselor or something. Having that support system can make a big difference. And try to keep busy with hobbies or activities you enjoy - that can help take your mind off things too.

Rejection is the worst, I get that. But you gotta keep your head up, man. There's someone out there who's gonna appreciate you for who you are. You just gotta give it time. Hang in there, alright?

[Anonymous]

It depends if the girl was actually rejected. Most women never actually deal with rejection. They just think they do.

[petitedollbabee]

I don’t drink or use substances to get over rejection, I just move on cause it’s not that serious.

[Viking_Girl19]

Respect!!!

[Nikki1989]

I would really hope most people are more mature than to want to drown their sorrows with booze.

[Asker]

I was in love with a girl when I was 22 year old. It was a love at first sight. I wanted to marry her.