As a man, do you agree with the statement:"as a man the women in my life are harder on me than any man has ever been" ?

[KrakenAttackin]

[D_Bone_Steak]

I actually don't agree. But I could and allow me to elaborate. What is hard as an individual can depend on factors like what we're used to or have been trained for.

So if you spend too much time dealing with men, a woman could possibly destroy you. If I was assigned to take out a target for instance and I see he's all built up to deal with men... I might send in a honey pot woman to do my bidding.

Story time... I once had a target that prided himself on being all invincible. I didn't have to get a real woman. Long story short I Andrew Tate like faked being a hawt chick and asked him to meet me a couple blocks down... no car because I have a walk planned. He's no longer with us now. The end.

The moral of my story is both genders can fuck you up in some very bad ways, and it will be in a way you least expect. Best thing to do is not make any enemies... but at the same time don't allow yourself to be used as a pawn for anything... simply because that act can make enemies too. Both genders can be very manipulative in this way.

The thing about women while being a man is you're a target for women more than for a man. A man wants money out of you... he might try to mug you. A woman though... She might suck your dick and then take almost everything you have a couple years later. Women bring the vulnerable out of some of the most hardend men that would fist fight his way out of knife fight with another man trying to rip him off. To put it another way... extortion might be rip off 2.0, but even a stupid woman with a nice set of tits could be rip off 3.0.

The best defense is a good offense though... or to simply not attract attention. Like they say... the red pills can be taken orally, but every man eventually takes the red pills. Those who didn't take it orally get them as a suppository. They still have to take them though.

[msc545]

Absolutely true. The men in my life have been good friends and a pleasure. Many of the women have been nightmares.

[IslaTheWitch]

I have my boundaries and I communicate them openly... I didn't force people to be with me...

so if they were... it was their decision and I doubt they were masochists :D

[KrakenAttackin]

That's not the question.

[IslaTheWitch]

do you really believe that half of the population would sacrifice the one life they have by staying with people who are hard for them? by keeping them in their lives? I don't... I believe that people care for their comfort, and if someone is unjustifiably hard on them they would cut off this relationship...

so if a man stays friends or partners with a woman who is hard on them... it means they want it that way

[KrakenAttackin]

Flip the genders and you would call that "abuse".

[IslaTheWitch]

where exactly do you see an abuse here?

[Apple1996]

Men sometimes need tough love. I ain't afraid to tell any man to get his shit together

[KrakenAttackin]

But when a man tells a woman to "get her shit together" she usually loses her shit.

[Apple1996]

Women don't need to have their shit together. We can go selling their titties on OF and make it in life. Men do not have that luxury

[KrakenAttackin]

*Sigh*... now you are messing with me... again
.. however; you are spitting facts.

[Apple1996]

Not messing with you but tbh like I'm not crazy tough on my son's. Their father is a drill sergeant tho so I'll let him handle that. The king of yelling at men to get their shit together 😆

[worldscolide]

You're not wrong, at least until I met my wife.

It was my mom who beat me as a child til I was bleeding, and then told me that real men don't cry. It was my ex that sliced my face up because I couldn't stand her abuse any more, and broke up with her. It was female counselers and social workers that put me in a place as a child where I was beaten and drugged any time I didn't follow their doctrine. (st Francis academy).

It was my grandfather that took me in and sheltered me, only for my mom and a social worker to accuse him of being a child molester. And got me placed in the place mentioned above..

Yeah most of the women I have ever had in my life have been straight up evil. The only ones who have not are my wife, and her mom god rest her, and my sister in law.

[KrakenAttackin]

This is exactly what I am talking about. Society just can't believe how harsh and cruel women can be towards men and boys.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say they're harder. But guys make sense, and guys usually use the frontal assault. Men have to come to the acceptance that women are never going to make sense. So women will always be hard to deal with till then. Women will always use the sneak approach, never the frontal assault. So it'll always seem worse. Because most of the time, you'll never know she attacked you till the damage is done. So I can see how they seem harder. Because you're dealing with a gender of unlimited guile and deceit.

[Lliam]

No.

I never had a girlfriend bust my balls. They were all sweet. None of them ever asked for financial support, cheated, or victimized me in any way. And they were a hell of a lot sexier than any guys. Plus, I like sex with women, not with guys.

Okay, there was one girlfriend who turned out to be a jerk after 6 months or so.

But my wife is wonderful. She is a help, not a burden.

[KrakenAttackin]

@liam, from reading years of your posts, you have lead a charmed life.

[TonyMetal___86]

No one can hurt you like a woman does, especially if you love her!

[Adel50]

Yes, at least in my experience.

[Pete671]

Women are way more critical imhe,

[WhiteBoyChill]

definitely yeah

[Jmmmfi4]

NO. MY DAD WAS FAR FAR FAR WORSE.

[Dongie]

How'd you know?