Is telling a guy but he gives you butterflies necessarily mean, love?

[Anonymous]

I told him he gives me butterflies, But I meant in a crush way, not like in a love way, or in love type of way. Can a guy that mean different things instead of a specific one

[ohsheeT]

You understand what you meant and the meanings of both with him he didn't even hear anything except for you give me butterflies he doesn't care which one it means he just knows now he has an opportunity to be with you so it's either going to scare him away or it's going to make him come after you but he doesn't know the difference anyway of what you're talking about and sometimes guys wouldn't even know what you're talking about so depending on how smart the guy is

if he doesn't pursue you he didn't know what you're talking about or if he did know what you're talking about and doesn't pursue it means it he probably has a girlfriend

And then there's guys who might not even know what you're talking about but they're going to pursue you anyway because you're hot but who knows it depends on the guy I guess and how you said it to him
And more importantly how you said it to him in the way you said it to him with your heart your energy did he feel your words because you send out an energy anytime you're speaking to anybody and take a look into your eyes and feel that those words you probably wouldn't get out of
The building fast enough for you

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's a really tough situation with your friend. It sounds like she's going through a rough time after losing her parents, but that doesn't excuse the way she's treating people. It's messed up that she's using her parents' deaths to try and control everyone and get sympathy.

It's understandable why the rest of your friend group is getting fed up with her behavior. No one wants to be around someone who's constantly disrespecting them and trying to manipulate them. That's just not cool.

I can see why she might be clinging to the people she's closest to, even if it's in an unhealthy way. Losing her parents must have been really hard and she's probably scared of losing more people. But that doesn't make it okay for her to treat you all like crap.

The best thing to do might be to try and have an honest conversation with her, but do it in a caring way. Let her know that you're there for her, but that the way she's been acting is really hurtful. See if you can get her to open up about what's really going on, instead of just venting all the time.

Setting some boundaries with her might be a good idea too. Make it clear that you care about her, but that you won't put up with the disrespect and the attempts to control everyone. Hopefully, that will help her realize that she needs to change her behavior if she wants to keep her friends.

I know it's a tough situation, but try to be patient and see if you can help her work through this in a constructive way. Good luck, luv! Let me know if you need any other advice.

[Abbycado]

What in the world are you asking?

[Anonymous]

Nope. I take it as a sign of immaturity.

[scott04sa22]

Not necessary

[Wise4myage]

Nor necessarily.