Girls, What’s a good gift for my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Her birthdays coming up an we haven’t got any toys or anything I wanna surprise her but not sure what to get

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1 y

So after a subtle chat she mentioned she’d like to try a different size of ‘me’ so I googled extenders/sleeves? Anyone have any experience with them are they a good/ bad buy? Any advice is greatly appreciated! Thanks

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1 y

Okay so I found an extender thingy that’s about +2 inches length and an additional inch in girth? In that a big leap of would it be a smooth transition? It also vibrates so that’s a positive too?

[SueShe]

Toys? I think she is passed that age where she needs toys. I stopped playing with toys when I was 8 years of age.

Buy her something constructive rather than something she cannot use and would likely give to some kids when you are not around.

What about something that you can do together? A dinner out, a long weekend somewhere, a ticket to a show or a visit to a museum.

I would refrain from giving a voucher because that denotes a lack of imagination and is the cheap way of giving something to someone that is supposed to be special.

[Asker]

Sorry I don’t mean kids toys I mean adult bedroom toys?

[SueShe]

Don't buy something so personal because you cannot return them if they are not suitable.

[Asker]

Yeah I guess

[Anonymous]

experience, ie. spa if she likes that sort of thing, sky diving, take her shopping and to lunch if you dont know what to do and left it too late

[Asker]

I got ideas like that sorted thank you though! I might add the experiences tho thanks for some inspiration

[aromatic_xo]

Maybe a seafood boil buffet 😋 a weekend getaway, or some meaningful jewelry

[Asker]

I got her a ring and I’m trying to plan a proposal so I’m sort of half way there lmao

[aromatic_xo]

Halfway there? So, just need to figure out the “yes” part now right? 😆

[Asker]

lol o I need to figure out the how i ask lmao I want it to be special

[aromatic_xo]

Take your time with it. It doesn’t have to be crazy, just meaningful and from the heart, she’ll love it.

I’d say go for something private and personal makes it way more special unless she’s into the whole audience thing. Maybe take her somewhere with a beautiful view like a sunset or under the stars, or even a spot that’s meaningful to both of you.

After a nice dinner or a fun activity, go for a walk and find the perfect moment, spot and view. Then just tell her how much she means to you and how you want to spend your life with her, and pop the question. Keep it simple, heartfelt, and memorable

[Asker]

Sounds good thanks!

[HelpfulWoman]

DO NOT.
never buy sex toys or anything without her consent and views on them.

[Asker]

Alright well she has mentioned some stuff before like it’s like a thing I wear to extend? It was brief and she seemed hesitant to talk about it but do I try that?

[HelpfulWoman]

no.
you talk to her about anything you want to buy for a sexual scenario

[Asker]

Alrighty