Dating

I can't tell if she's into me or just friendly?

A new woman [~37] started working in my office about a month ago. Me [31m] and her seemed to hit it off pretty quickly. We would chat every day about random things for a while, and the conversation flowed easy and would go on for a while some times (like 30m+).

I decided to just go for it and asked her out to lunch last week at the start of the week. She said yes. We talked about it the next day and also talked through the week. I texted her as the weekend was approaching to get a time for the lunch and she had an excuse not to go, as she had the same food for dinner that night. So instead of going for something else she offered to reschedule and mentioned talking at work. I took that as she changed her mind on going out, which is whatever. But the next day we had an offsite lunch and she volunteered me to drive her, just the two of us. Felt on to me. The touch barrier between also also started to break down (like arms brushing up while we walked).

This week rolls around and I mention rescheduling and she said she would love to. Today, I offered to drive her to the train station from work and tried to clarify if she was free and she mentioned again that she probably isn't but would let me know. Her excuse was that she still had a few things to do from her move in, which she's mentioned to me before. By a few I mean like a couple hours worth of things at most.

Truth be told both excuses feel weak to me, but since I asked her out it seems we have grown progressively closer in person when talking and physically. On the other hand, we really haven't texted much. She responds to me, but not quickly and there really hasn't been conversation so much as quick communication. Is she into me and maybe finishing her move is mentally keeping her from moving forwards with me or something or just friendly and trying to let me down softly?


I can't tell if she's into me or just friendly?
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