Is it weird to fall for a woman who's overweight?

[Anonymous]

Overweight women usually aren't my type, but I've known her for a while and have developed feelings for her, I love who she is as a person.

[Valdemort]

You're falling for a person based on their personality. What kind of brainwashing did you experience to think that's weird?

[Asker]

The "anyone who isn't in shape isn't a good partner" kind.

[Valdemort]

Nah my dude, no sincere people think that way. And for those who do - that's none of your concern. Your decisions, your future, your life. You do you!
And if it works out, the woman too :p

[Asker]

Lol. She's got great confidence which I also find attractive, she flirted with me.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but not because she's overweight. Most fat women hate themselves. And you can't really love someone who doesn't even love themselves.

[Asker]

She doesn't seem to have that problem, she seems confident in herself.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, well your situation is not the norm. Maybe SHE is confident. I've met confident fat women. But they are not the norm.

[laraWM]

No, it's not weird since she's nice

[Asker]

She's very nice, she asked me out.

[laraWM]

Great

[MikeRJ]

Not if you like her.