Dating outside your race?

[Anonymous]

Why is it easier for a black guy to get a white girl or white girl to get a black guy. But a white guy can get a black girl or maybe black girls are interested in White guys why

[Zack-Bann]

It’s the fetishized aspect of it I think:


Dating within your own race is practically doing what your parents expect of you and things will naturally gravitate towards the serious.


But even in our all-inclusive society it’s still low key a taboo to date someone from another race so when you do it you know that you’re making an unpopular choice and can have a stress free relationship because neither family is gonna push for marriage (especially when you’re young)


That’s not to say mixed couples don’t get married. Because many eventually do.


But it’s pointless to try and pinpoint which group is into which.


I have met black women and white women who never gave me a second look.
And others who looked for excuses just to talk and hang out with me hoping I would flirt with them
(When I did I often landed a date)

[AnonAndrew]

You're mistaken. Most black girls love white guys.

It's just that a lot of white men aren’t into black women. Sad, because there are a lot of hot black women out there.

So the reason that you got the impression you got is that white men tend not to pursue black women. If they started to, then white man-black woman couples would quickly become the more common kind of couple.

[MissTrix]

What? You want a black girl but can't cause your white?

Most black girls know black men are awful. They ordered ever some white men. Not all but a lot of the upper class.

It's like Spanish girls they know Thier guys are lazy so they marry outside of not knocked up in highschool

[Anonymous]

Try Indian Women, they don't prefer their guys cuz got no responsibility & don't treat women well. Patriarchal society. There's Indian Christians. Try Indian Cupid/dating apps & websites.

[BonzoInBitburg]

I've dated a couple black women who were skinny and they said black guys weren't interested in them. My black friends who date white women like women who are chubby.

[jazzy34]

Yeah. The black woman/white man relationship is rare. I don’t have an explanation other than a lot of black women don’t like white guys. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[AnonAndrew]

@jazzy34
It's the other way around. Most black women really like white guys, but unfortunately a lot of white guys aren't into black women.

If white men started pursuing black women, then that would quickly become the more common kind of white-black coupling.

[jazzy34]

That may be true, but where I am, I see more of the white woman/black man relationship.

[AnonAndrew]

@jazzy34
Yeah, I think it's like that everywhere. When men have interracial relationships it's usually with latinas or Asian women, since so few white men are interested in black women.

[HungTexan]

Not sure what you’re asking. I don’t see an issue with dating someone with a different skin color — we’re all part of the ‘human’ race!

[Anonymous]

Black guy to get a white girl I'd say. But the white girl has to dig black guys. Black women generally do not dig white guys.