He’s too short for me…?

[Anonymous]

I went on vacation to my home land met a guy through family gathering he fun to be around got great energy and makes me laugh he told me he liked me I declined at first and told him straight up cause you 25 I’m 30 and you shorter then me also in a different continent I don’t do long distance fast forward 1 week before I left I gave in we kiss cause besides the short aspect every is fine…now I’m back home I’m trying to find a way to tell him I just want to be friends…, help

[ohsheeT]

Lol. Is that what you truly want though I mean do you like being around him and everything could it work out if you was taller was he a good kisser LOL none of this really is any of my business I'm just giving you a hard time

Well I think you're going to have to figure it out but don't take too much time because when things become into our lives that are positive sometimes we just settle when we go for it so you have to be really aware of what you're doing and why you're doing it but I think it's kind of a cute scenario I think it's kind of funny and it's good it's good for you if you're happy it's good that's all that counts at the moment so

I'm not going to answer that question it is he too short for you because I don't know I don't know your preference I don't know him and like I said it's none of my business it's what makes you happiness the right answer

[Zack-Bann]

I mean… his height is a moot point considering everything else


You don’t have to tell him
“No thanks you’re too short”


You can just say
“It was fun but we clearly live different lives, and can’t access eachother. I would rather we stay friends instead”


Its a fair conclusion that he can’t really argue with

[Anonymous]

Tell him kindly and directly that after thinking it over, a romantic relationship isn't right for you due to your own feelings and what you're looking for, not his height or other factors. Be prepared for his reaction, and offer friendship only if you genuinely mean it. Then, give him space.

[Berethor]

Yea a man should be taller than a woman, so he too short for you.

[Danny_dan92]

What’s done is done. Move on

[Anonymous]

What does height have to do with anything?

[nron97]

Are you acting like 99.9999999% of women (including yourself probably) aren’t shallow snobs about height? Or are you that one rare human female who doesn’t care cause you’re so different. Yawn.

[James899]

Text him or call him