Why is your ex your ex now?

[Anonymous]

I would say previous but I guess share the most interesting one you got cause I'm curious lol

[Vevv123]

He cheated with his best friend's wife and continued to cheat. You would have never guessed it because he always brought me flowers to work, was super romantic, and gave me gifts. Everyone at my job knew him, knew how much he “loved me”, showered me with compliments, but they also knew he was very jealous. So jealous that he told me he didn’t want me to work anymore because he felt insecure about me being around other men. When he got drunk, that was his excuse — he didn’t want me to work. Stopped working to stay home with him, could basically never go out without him, even found a camera once. It was annoying, but oh, I was so in love. Then he messed up when he tried to hit on my sister by sending her messages, and that was the end of him. There’s so much more too but that’s the short version. 😅

[Asker]

I would imagine this is the thing you've seen before that makes you no rookie 😅

[Vevv123]

Yea, I’ve seen enough to know the signs 😅

[Asker]

Damn 🙃🫠

[Vevv123]

Oh you know what.. almost forgot to add, my ex prior to him chased me with a kitchen knife… so you can pick the winner for the purposes of your question. 😅

[Asker]

You telling me there was no visible signs of red flags on this mf? 😂

[Vevv123]

The red flags are blinding 😂

[Vevv123]

😂😂😂😂😂

[Asker]

No you are blind 😂

Blaming the red flags in crazy lol

[Vevv123]

I can’t stop laughing 🤣 🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

Think of it, it's like me bopping someone on the top of the head with a baseball bat and go like wow this baseball bat is a lunatic 💀

[Vevv123]

You’re so hilarious. Stop. 😂😂😂😂

[MicahRaine]

She was cheating on me, I didn't know but I got sussed out, I called her on things she was doing that were sus, she apologized but didn't change, I dumped her, she begged for another chance and (not knowing that she cheated, but having known her for 6 years) I gave it to her, a few days later she reverted back to the same patterns and I called her on it, she flipped out cussing and screaming and gaslighting me (even in the moment I knew she was just trying to get me to flip out so she could say I was the bad guy), she got tired of how I wasn't kowtowing or getting mad, she dumped me, I laughed about it with my sister to cope, a few days later I found the guy she'd been cheating on me with, I found out that she'd been cheating for months (wild work), I deleted her number and changed social media nickname to "cheater" lol

That's some lore but yeah

[Asker]

Lore indeed, this is probably the most detailed one so far lol

[MicahRaine]

Yeah lol mb

[Bricealan]

@ChicoFromThe305 1) For one thing she is a LDR, (Oceanside - and I am in Huntington Beach) 2) We had difference of what she considered appropriate dress for what I see as 'formal' events. That always bugged me and she has money to dress well.

3) I found her to be "selfish' in bed, ALTHOUGH not selfish in other areas of our relationship.

[GrinchyTsy]

Well my ex husband decided I didn’t have the right equiptment, the one after him his wife (didn't know he had) broke up with me, the next one send my underage daughter d**k pics, and the last one I didn't put out fast enough so he cheated on me and played victim 😒

[Asker]

Geez you've really seen the shittiest type of men haven't you, at least tell me there's a happy ending here 😆

[GrinchyTsy]

Yep I became a crazy cat lady 🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

Well I guess it could've been worse, you could've became a crazy bug lady or something heehee

[DishLady]

Well he was my ex an hour ago too...

[Asker]

Wdym 🙃

[DishLady]

(I'm just joking... bc you asked why's he an ex "now"...)

[Asker]

Oh I thought you are freshly off a relationship 😂

[DishLady]

Nah. Not for a while. There was a very brief attempt towards the end of the year but the guy turned out to be an exceptional dbag (as my G@G guy friends actually heartily agree).

[Asker]

So he's there when needed type of thing? Lol

[DishLady]

No... and that's basically the problem. He apparently just wanted me to come-a-runnin whenever needed type thing. Very self-centered.

[Asker]

It is indeed, so you just chose to accept?

[DishLady]

No of course not. He can go fish... and jump in the fucking lake for all I care.

Just that it took me a while to understand that's what he was angling towards.

[Asker]

So why remain in the relationship if it's no compatible

[DishLady]

As I told him to his face, we're both WAY too old for that level of bs.

[DishLady]

I just told you I didn't... That's the whole basis of my response here...

[Asker]

Okay then he wasn't an exceptional douche or you would expected him, why confuse me 😂

[DishLady]

I didn't mean to. I meant "exceptional dbag" like "he's 150% dbag" not that he was stellar person who just happened to also be a dbag with me specifically... He's apparently like that with a lot of women. Sorry for the confusion.

[Asker]

Okay that makes sense, fair enough, thank for sharing 🤣

[DishLady]

Np. Thanks for your patience. I didn't realize there was a possible double meaning. <3

[Asker]

You sure you didn't mean sensational Dbag? Lol

[DishLady]

(Asme thing... but for some reason "sensational" reminds me of https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tyZeGOsR9IA

[MemeSupreme]

bc i was lowkey toxic for him and i just wasn't really in a good place to be in a relationship period

[Asker]

From what I've picked up you seem to never be ready 😂

[MemeSupreme]

listen... LISTEN

i might be a walking redflag, BUT I'VE PUT IN THE TIME. in my new relationship rn im trying to do better and not be toxic. it's uncomfortable as hell lol

[Asker]

Oh so you finally are ready, you actually made the step forward and you are trying to not be toxic, it's a miracle 🥹

[MemeSupreme]

it's hard out here

[Asker]

I know momo but it seems youve stepped out of that comfort zone, you actually entered a relationship and trying to make better decisions, it's a step in the right direction, I'm proud of you momo 🥹

[MemeSupreme]

is that sarcasm lol

can't tell whether or not to be mean

[Asker]

Nope I'm being foreal, it's good to know you aren't alone anymore, maybe this person can fix you 😂

[MemeSupreme]

i doubt that lol

but thanks

[Asker]

Negative Nancy

[oldpigg]

She failed the school year and I never saw her again, I could have contacted her through social media but at that time I was too conceited.

[Asker]

I see, interesting, did she ever say why she disappeared

[oldpigg]

Her parents transferred her to a different high school because she failed the school year.

[Asker]

And she never reached out to you again or was that her parents fault too you think

[oldpigg]

We only talked at school.

[Simslover92]

Depression

[Asker]

You depression or them depression?

[Simslover92]

Me depression

[Asker]

Are you better now or still depression? 🥲

[Simslover92]

Somewhat better now. I still have my bad days but it's not like before.

[Asker]

Okay you being better is a step in the right direction, you have progressed since the last time we spoke? 👀

[Simslover92]

Yes I have. I have a therapist now. And she's helping me a lot.

[Asker]

That's good, feel better 😌👏🏼

[Simslover92]

Thanks!

[LadyBecks]

This was a very long time ago - but he cheated

[Asker]

That sucks, how long ago was it?

[LadyBecks]

So long - I was 18. This would be the boyfriend I had just before I met the guy who would be my now husband.

[Asker]

Oh so it seems it all worked out perfectly, that's awesome indeed 😌👏🏼

[douride2]

He moved for work reasons & I had to many responsibilities here to go with him.

[Miah06]

Because we are no longer dating

[Asker]

I kinda already knew that 😂

[Miah06]

Then why ask?🤨

[Asker]

Just because lol

[Miah06]

Well you already knew the answer. My time has been wasted😭

[Asker]

Nope your time has been invested into my awesomeness, you should be proud of yourself, good choice 😌😂

[Miah06]

🤮🤮🤮

[Asker]

🥺🥺🥺

[Miah06]

No don't do the eyes😭

[Asker]

You puked on my awesomeness 🥺

[Miah06]

No I puked on your narcissistic response😂

[Asker]

Same thing 😌

[Miah06]

😂😂😂.

[princeofromance]

She cheated on me.

[Asker]

Damn that sucks, sounds like a common scenario unfortunately

[princeofromance]

Common or not, it is still wrong.

[Asker]

Oh 100%

[MikeRJ]

We grew apart.

[Asker]

Seems like decent breakup

[MikeRJ]

It was.

[Sonorous]

Chad showed her a better life 🤣

[Dongie]

Ask her ass!

[Asker]

Is she here? 😂

[Dongie]

Somewhere around she be. But I'll not divulge such things as I am a mutha' fuckin' gentleman. 😮

[Asker]

Lmao fair enough

[Anonymous]

I don't have an ex :(

[12karen]

Because I didn't like him

[Asker]

Fair enough