What is your love language?

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DishLady · Accepted Answer

The love language thing is a "for dummies" guide for folks who don't know how to read people... It's not like folks who pick "quality time" aren't into "physical touch" (or vice versa)... The biggest red flag is the one about gift giving bc it's a sort of honey trap some folks fall into, the "gift" being anything from a kind word or emoji to a fancy dinner and flowers (or an apartment/summer home/global cruise based on this one couple I know). Of course folks like gifts in general... just don't use gifts to compensate for quality time (which makes it an UN-love language... a manipulation language). Same with physical touch/sex. (Makeup sex isn't always as cool as folks make it out to be. Sometimes it's just... manipulation to end a battle by shifting gears.)

You LOVE someone? Tell them. Show them. Tell them what you're showing them. Done.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I have been very blessed in so many ways

I feel and see things deeper than most people.
And in life we must have all 5 of them plus more . Because at any given moment someone will come into your life that needs to feel one of them from you. if you are truly going to be a friend a lover. A teacher or a guide.

I truly believe that there are more than 5 level languages.
It's just who we're supposed to be. I also believe that we all have those qualities with in us
and that we share them each and every day with other people .. plus other one ones

And when you are.
With the person that you love you can turn that volume up even higher even deeper to give each one of those more meaning

And then.
You become one With that person and it goes to another level

ChicoFromThe305 · Accepted Answer

Getting kicked by a horse but recovering it with a crazy flip and land on the ground in a romantic fashion with a rose in my mouth

TheSmellOfVictoria · Answer

Having a desire to cook for me. I also liked when women would tell me how to dress, because it showed they found me attractive but they can help me be even more attractive!

sawno · Answer

Telepathy, physical touch and words of affirmation.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Blood sacrifices Nah just kidding  Physical touch. And not necessarily the dirty kind Even a hug has a way of warming my heart

YourExLover69 · Answer

Physical touch, cuddles, kisses, getting blowjobs, holding hands, looking deeply into eyes, texting/chatting when far from each other, flirting n teasing.

Manuelwe · Answer

Can not say as it is a secret

4ngelic · Answer

being affectionate, teasing, gifting

Agape93 · Answer

Acts of service and touch.

Ironic_Method · Answer

Physical touch! Also, food.

nawtee_me · Answer

Pussy eating. ;). lol

Dating-Coach-101 · Answer

Service. I like to be useful.

Pterodon · Answer

Music

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Scratch my scalp.

Anonymous · Answer

Effort.

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