If you’re worried your step mom is attracted to you what should you do?

[Anonymous]

What are indicators there may be hidden feelings as well as indicators there isn’t

[PeachyPie93]

If your stepmom is attracted, tell your dad she creeps you out.. If she is too touchy with you or tries to follow you around often or stares at you those are good indications she is attracted. My older cousin was doing that to my boyfriend and she is a big hoe, he had to tell me she was making him uncomfortable so I stayed around him while we were over there lol.

[Anonymous]

Lay off the porn.

[Asker]

Barely watch it. You don’t know my situation

[Asker]

You should answer a question before you jump to judgements. You don’t know why I’m asking the question.

[Summeroflove]

Hard to tell if you’re trolling or not but if you’re not or there is someone who suspects something is going on DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOUR STEP MOTHER!!! Number one you can’t betray your own father that way there is only a few outcomes that can happen by trying to solicit your step mother for sex and none of them are going to end well. Either you’re going to be shut down and you’re going to have that awkward conversation when she tells your dad what you did. The other option is she does sleep with you and it causes major issues later down the road. You can’t come back from doing something like that so DO NOT…. Just don’t.

If you’re noting signs that seem like she may be into you. Number one is keep your distance when you’re around her alone. If she’s asking you to do weird things like give her a massage, wearing revealing clothes, asking you for favors she should be asking your dad for, etc. Can be signs maybe there is something going on. But there are things too that could be completely innocent that you may just be interpreting the wrong way. Maybe she’s asking for help with dishes or the kids because she genuinely is needing your help.

I would just say observing too how she’s acting around you when your dad is around and when he isn’t. Does she treat you the same or differently? How is she acting around you? Is she more reserved or is she more talkative can be indicators.

Use the information wisely even if she has secret feelings it doesn’t necessarily mean she would act on them as well as may feel conflicted it’s not always black and white. The best case scenario is that she sees you as her step son and nothing more. It’s completely normal for her to want to build a relationship with you as long as she isn’t being romantic and/or sexual. So you could be mistaking things such as her just wanting to make a connection and build a relationship as something that it’s not.

If you do suspect something like I said just keep your distance be respectful and nice unless you know something for sure it’s likely she would be extremely careful if she did have any feelings she’s aware of the risks involved of doing anything super overt so it will be subtle.

If she ever does something overt or brazen shut it down immediately and ask your dad to talk to you privately he deserves to know. DO NOT…. And I mean DO NOT have sexual relations with your step mother. Under any circumstances DO NOT DO IT

[AnonAndrew]

I don't have a stepmom, but if I did and I thought she were attracted to me, then my reaction would not be worry...

The indicators are the same as with other women. But unless you're very handsome, and your dad isn't, your stepmom's probably not gonna be into you.