Do you think it matters who does the seducing?

[EmmiL]

I just been told it's okay if a middle aged woman seduces a 20 year old but not a man. I don't see the logic.

[AydenHazor]

I don't think it matters who does the seducing, as long as both parties consent, all is good

[Anonymous]

No its not, seducing is just so nice

[EmmiL]

I agree

[Opinion Owner]

Thats nice

[Summeroflove]

Unless it’s rape which is obviously wrong and a crime. It takes two people to have sex no matter who initiates it either person at any point could call it off and say they don’t want to do it.

Many people male or female just regret having sex with someone at the end of it. So they don’t want it to seem like it’s their fault or they have any responsibility.

[EmmiL]

Yeah exactly people can say no

[Summeroflove]

Yep. Men say women seduce them and came onto them. Women say well a man flirted and they just had to jump into bed.

Truth is whoever made the first move they chose to have sex with one another. They just regret it and don’t want to face what they did

[Shiprex]

It's a sign that men are bad no matter what they do and should be content to be denied the opportunity to seek their own satisfaction and pleasure from life when they aren't being provided the needs they desire in relationships they are in. Dead bedrooms, disrespect, worse outcomes in court, parental rights denied through lack of consent in pregnancy or abortion practices. Still they pay the most into the exchequer and support as well as provide for society to be kept and improved while they die at a rate 15 times more than women. But we don't complain so YEAH maybe start to take the initiative ladies, you want a date, ask for one we would definitely offer to pay our share and even the whole thing if you bothered to ask

[NicholasRedone]

Usually the man often seduces the woman in relationship or relations lol 😆 😂 that's mature adults

[NicholasRedone]

The woman always submissive to Her man, unless her man asks her to "get on top tonight, ride reverse or ride frontal, I don't care* lol 😂😆

[EmmiL]

It's usually the woman if she's older

[NicholasRedone]

@emmil lol usually a man is older in a true relationship that lasts and lol personally I find those with same age or a 1 year or 2 year gap don't count lol "he was always eyeballing other women" or "she was always wandering her eye to other men" 😭😆

[EmmiL]

I am not talking about relationships but sex, it's nearly always the older woman seducing

[DrPepper12]

It's fine. To be seduced you must be willing & open to it. Plus, more important, the ONLY consideration is legal, safe & consensual. After that NUNYA & STFU & MYOB and be happy for them! Life's too short!!

[DCVsMarvel2]

It shouldn't matter, who does it, as long as it's legal age of consent, whatever it is, in your place of living

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Doesn't matter to me as long as they are consenting adults and not groomed lol when I was 19 I was screwing a 37 year old

[TheSpaceGnome]

Its just old women being jealous and dads being overprotective of young adults, thats the "logic".

[V1ka5h]

Seducing is nice if the opposite person is enjoying it

[Surely]

If both parties are off legal age and mature minds. It only should matter to the people who thinks it is wrong. But then their opinion doesn’t matter!

[Ironic_Method]

I prefer the women to do the seducing because then I know they're interested.

[EmmiL]

Is that for yourself?
I am asking for people in general

[Ironic_Method]

Yes. In general I don't think it matters.

[genericname85]

it's either not ok both ways or ok either way. every version of one thing being ok but not the other is bullshit.

[WonderingManII]

I think if society is going to be fair to the sexes, then it shouldn't matter who does the seducing.

[Almanprens]

Yeah if a woman seduces someone its sexy but if man do it can be a problem

[EmmiL]

Why is that? You seem to be talking from your bias of liking to be seduced by women

[Almanprens]

The reality aspect is … a man who is single have mostly no problem with that… but in the world of the women it’s can feel bad … not cool and not sexy …

[EmmiL]

You should speak on your behalf instead of other people, it really depends on the person, you can't speak on their behalf

[EmmiL]

That's very ignorant

[Almanprens]

No you are right This is just my observation.. If both party have an interest and are single… a seducing game is not really bad… a man would maybe react negative if he has no interest in a gentle way…. But a woman could see it as a harassment

[EmmiL]

Lol they are both negative reactions what's the difference

[Almanprens]

It’s like … if you Would seduce me and I would be not single ( I m single by the way) I would react and say : thank you very much but. I don’t want it…

But when I would seduce you, you would hit me 🥺☹️😂

[EmmiL]

That's a generalisation and makes no sense

[Almanprens]

I studied maths I know what makes sense and is logical … trust me 🌷🌷🌷🌷

[EmmiL]

I don't think you know what you are talking about honestly

[Almanprens]

I think we have similar opinions …

[EmmiL]

Do we? I think we are polar opposites

[Almanprens]

Polar opposites is not a bad thing🌷

[EmmiL]

Not sure

What if it's older guy with young guy?

[Almanprens]

İ didn't understand… maybe when a boy seduce some older woman it could be for some like “ it’s a teenager he is young and dont know what he is doing …” but when a older man is seducing a woman the probability is higher that the reaction would be more bad

[EmmiL]

Usually women seduce boys but I understand what you are saying

It depends on circumstances and people

[Anonymous]

These questions get worse and worse by the day. A lot of you need meds and a therapist not gag.

[katiesmuff]

No I think it is fine for either one to start it.

[NordicInScandinavia]

Both are gross and immature as fuck.

[WhiteThought]

It's not logically consistent

[PaleDale]

A 20 year old is a young man

[EmmiL]

And?

[PaleDale]

And... no. I do not think it matters.

[EmmiL]

What if it's a 20 year old woman

[PaleDale]

Same, if it's legal and consensual than either gender

[Wise4myage]

I think its fine both ways.

[Wise4myage]

But I think its even better if its a 50/50 thing.

[Kelly6]

@emmil i don’t see a logic too

[Cheerfull009]

To seduce, age isn't a problem

[billyboy197747]

It does not matter.

[BobbyLee789]

Nope

[PeterLegg91]

No it's all the same

[zombiewoof]

It is all ok