Do men get turn off when seeing the woman has dark skin in some areas and when she has stretchmarks?

[Anonymous]

I'm (F) 29 years old and a veterinarian, never dated a guy before nor did I ever been associated with a man in a romantic way like talking stage or like that. But then I got associated with a tall masculine cute man started talking to me since he found me very nice and good with his dogs and very beautiful and we've been dating for like a year now and sometimes I find excuses to go home whenever we make out, I knew it would lead to somewhere more deeper thing & I was afraid he'd be disgusted when he sees that I have stretchmarks because I was chubby as a kid and teen too and I've lost all the weight when I stepped to senior high, not only that but I've got dark vagina too with dark areolas which I think some men may find unattractive. That's why whenever we'd make out and we both get touchy that's my cue to leave. He would text me 24/7 asking me if I felt alright or what and he'd call me as soon as I came home after I left his house after making out. That call would last for like a whole day and maybe 48 hours whenever I was too busy at work. Please I need answers, I'm desperate & I love him so much, I've also been seeing hints of him buying an engagement ring already.

[SueShe]

If a man would be put off by something that is natural, then you know he is definitely the wrong person for you. An apple has blemishes but nobody would reject it because of it.

You are in that situation where you have to make a choice now. You love him yet you don't want to confess what you have been keeping away from him for so long. The longer you wait with your confession and the more you are hurting yourself.

You may have a few things that bother YOU in particular but that does not mean that others are bothered by those imperfections. The longer you wait to tell him and the more distant he will get and move away from you. Is that what you want?

No of course but telling him is your best (and only) option before he finds out and asks you why you did not tell him. He is certainly not perfect too and if he is as nice as you say, then he will overlook those imperfections.

[red-lipstick-girl]

Every woman has stretch marks and I have them on my body but none of my lovers have ever had a problem with them, why would they? It's not a flaw.

[Stevepro68]

Listen My girlfriend at one time was a SW. She is darker skin and other features just like your with some stretch marks from her pregnancy. Yet despite that men spent 10's of thousand of dollars on her to shake her booty in their faces. They bought her flowers, gifts, and gave her money. Sometimes for nothing just to help her out when her work closed during the height of the pandemic. To their everlasting disappointment she decided that my ugly old red hair and the whitest ass was the one she wanted. So don't be confused there is a butt for every seat in this world.

[SotiCoto]

You ask as though men are some sort of monolith with only one opinion on any given subject.

I think you could figure out the answer to your question though:
Some men like those things and some men dislike them... and others again have no strong opinion either way. You won't find out what any given man's opinions are unless you ask them directly.

[MannMitAntworten]

If you sees you as unappealing when naked together … it is okay. There will be someone who likes who they see. However, I have a feeling he is not going to be turned off by you. Let the chips fall where they may.

[Anonymous]

Stretchmarks and dark areolas and vagina are perfectly normal. Even pale women naturally have darker skin around their vagina most of the time, even if their nipples are pink. If he likes you he'll just be happy to see you naked.

[jahaims]

Different people have different preferences

[In_Trance]

Guys don't give a shit about this

[MasterKS]

Its more how it feels rather than look.

[PaleDale]

No it's sexy