This lady I went out with made noises with her drink, is that odd?

[Anonymous]

She was making gargling noises and swishing it around just randomly in the restaurant, some people noticied.

[Nikki1989]

And this triggers you, how?

[HelpfulGirlll]

A bit odd, yeah.

[Anonymous]

Was it wine?

[Asker]

No, soda.

[Opinion Owner]

Yuck okay. Only asking because I know that there’s mine tasters who swish, slurp and do all this stuff to prep the wine before swallowing. But if it’s just sissy then that’s gross.

[Asker]

I did agree to another date with her anyway.

[Opinion Owner]

LOL I meant wine tasters, and soda not sissy. Anyway I guess if she’s a cool person overall then another date is fine, maybe you could find a way to address the soda thing, so she knows you’re aware and people can hear it as well. Something like “hey I noticed you sort of swish around your drink, is there a reason for that?” You could even mention the thing I said about wine like “not to make you feel weird or anything I’m just curious because I know that wine drinkers will do that, sort of to enhance the taste”. Then it makes what you said sound more like a question than an accusation and maybe it’ll make her self conscious enough to stop.

[Asker]

Yeah, I still like her, I'll see if I can find a way to address it. She actually gargled her drink for what seemed like a minute, I was saying something when she started doing it and I was like "I'll wait...".

[Opinion Owner]

Gosh, I wish you you luck with it dude that’s a really gross trait. Maybe it’s a nervous tick.