I'm still attracted to a woman when finding out she doesn't shave her legs or underarms, am I totally weird?

[Anonymous]

It was the first time I had seen her in a swimsuit and we've been on a few dates, I was still attracted to her despite noticing her hairy legs and underarms.

[DishLady]

I don't know. Do you FEEL totally weird? My one boyfriend (back a few years) used to ask me to grow out my legs and such bc he liked it... and I tried to comply for a month or so, but in the end had to have a talk with him bc I like to be waxed smooth, which I've always found to be more hygienic.

[Asker]

I don't feel weird, but I'm told I'm weird.

[DishLady]

I mean... in this day and age it's a little odd for a guy to tell a girl "hey grow your hair out for me" but I've heard some guys are obsessed with shaving their gal's legs etc. for them. Personally I wouldn't want that.

[SueShe]

Why would body hair be so important to you?

Would a great personality, character and intellect not be prioritized over such trivial things?

Anyone that solely looks at this trivial aspect of a person should never be in a relationship in the first place. Those that place so much importance on looks are the first ones that will cheat because they are superficial people.

[Asker]

It seems to have important to others, one dude at the pool next to me kept looking at her oddly, until I gave him a stare back and he stopped.

[NathanDavis]

for G@G standards... you're quite average

[Asker]

Lol. She was walking towards me at the pool and people were staring at her.

[Nikki1989]

And so what?

Body hair is meant to be there. Shaving it off is when it becomes unnatural.

[alli-112]

Nah, body hair is natural and having preferences (or not having preferences) about any given thing is also totally natural. If it's not bothering you, just roll with it and have a nice time with your girl.

[Anonymous]

Not totally. Just a little weird.

[Asker]

She did get a lot of looks as she was walking towards me at my neighborhood pool.

[dudeinohio]

Yeah

[wkhan_87]

It is kind of kink