How many DMs do you actually get per day on different platforms like Instagram, Snapchat, Tinder, Bumble, Reddit, etc?

[Anonymous]

I know it varies depending on how someone looks or what they post, but I’m genuinely curious what the average experience is like for women on these apps. Is it really constant messages every day? How many of them are actually from people you’re interested in?

[SueShe]

Besides G@G, I have no social media. I have no need to follow the craze of having a million and 6 different social media. For what?

During my time as an ubermod and influencer, I was assigned over 15,000 followers until I decided that I was not going to play that game again. It took me days to remove every single one of them and since then, I have almost none.

The very few followers I have are people I trust because I know them since a long time. If I get 2 DM a week from those few people I follow, then it is a lot.

I am not interested in the masses but only in quality.

[Anonymous]

Like regular dms or dms from people interested in you?

[Asker]

I don’t mean regular DMs, I mean like unwanted attention, sexualization, etc…

[Opinion Owner]

I only get DMs from on guy interested in me and the feeling is mutual , haven’t had any unwanted attention in a month or more probably

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho

[BlondeGoneWild]

Between 10-20 a day, more if I post pics

[Asker]

Wow that’s a lot

[Valdemort]

About 3 and they're usually friends