Guys, Is a girl being 4”11 too short?

[Anonymous]

I feel like my height is my biggest setback in dating as everyone thinks I’m way too short.

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10 mo

please say how tall u are for reference

[HawkPerception]

I'm 5'9 and I like petite women. The height difference makes you "fun sized". You'd be easier to carry around (say if you jump on me for a kiss) and toss around in bed (if you like a dominant guy in bed). The height difference usually makes men feel more masculine. Interestingly enough, it's usually the tallest guys that end up with the shortest girls because of that dynamic. The short girls generally want a really tall guy because they feel more protected.

[Asker]

Yes but I also look very young face wise plus long hair so I fear I look like a young teenage when I’m actually 20. Many people say I look 14-16

[HawkPerception]

That's common among a lot of girls around your age. Most guys are attracted to girls around 16 and up, but most don't want to admit it in fear of being labeled a certain way. As long as you voice consent, I doubt any guys would be deterred.

[Berethor]

I am 5”11, shortness is associated with both femininity and youth, if Shauna Rae who is 3”10 can find a man then you can too, for a girl to be too short is almost like for a guy to be too tall, it's almost impossible, women are on average 5 inches shorter than men, that's why shortness is shortness is associated with femininity, while tallness is associated with masculinity.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-11658291/Man-dated-woman-trapped-childs-body-claps-critics.html

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[Summeroflove]

You can’t control your height. You can control the type of person you choose to be if someone rejects you over height he wasn’t the right one anyways.

I always tell people this. Just move on from certain people.

[ohsheeT]

I'm right in between 6 foot 6.1. So I always say 6 foot. I like 4.1"

[Orion84]

I've personally always had a preference for short women, so I would consider that to be a bonus, not a drawback.

In fact, many guys prefer short women. Sure, there are some that like tall women, but there will never be a shortage of men out there that like shorter ladies. You have nothing to worry about.

[Asker]

But how tall are you for reference

[Orion84]

I'm 6'4" tall, if that helps?

[Asker]

So u would date someone 4”11?

[Orion84]

I would, yes. I've dated women around that height before, and would do so again.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Five-eight-and-one-half.

[Levin]

Being small is generally considered a plus for a woman.

Providing you're generally in good order, like a motor car or something, I think that would be very appealing. I'd like to date a 4' 11 girl.

[Asker]

How tall are you tho

[Levin]

5ft 11.

[Levin]

5ft 3 girls come up to my chin.

[HighValue]

As short as 4' 9" would be okay with me and I am 6' 1/2" tall. She needs to have an attractive face with no nose rings, no tattoos, and have normal hair.

[SotiCoto]

Yes, that is WAY too short for an adult. Like so short it is probably a medical issue.
So short that anyone you end up with is probably a paedophile using you as a substitute for a child.

[Asker]

This is mean. Also by the way the average height in many countries for women is 4”11-4”10 and I can’t change my height. I had an eating disorder as a teen too probs why

[BonzoInBitburg]

You're 2" taller than my wife. Short girls are cute

[Asker]

And you aren’t a pedo? Someone said very short girls only attract pedos

[BonzoInBitburg]

It's a very weird thing to say that very short girls only attract pedos.

[Asker]

No sorry I only said that half joking cos everyone always tells me anyone who is into me is a pedo?

[RavVid]

No it is beautifully pixie like and a lot of us like it. It makes us feel more dominant.

[Asker]

How tall are u tho

[RavVid]

5' 10. A mate is 6' 6 and he always goes for pixie girls too. His current is and when asked why he said "she's 5' nothing". He is grounded. According to him pixie girls go for him so as a couple they average out to about 5' 8.

Another tall friend has a particularly short Asian girlfriend. So it is not just me.

[Asker]

Oh ok

[RavVid]

Taller girls get annoyed by the pixie girls snapping up tall guys saying it is not fair because tall girls really need tall guys but pixie girls don't.

[Anonymous]

No. I'm 6'5" and the greatest woman I've ever known was 4'11". She was so great even that I married her.😂 Height don't matter. I'm sure to some we're an odd pairing. But to us were the perfect height for eachother.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Yep.(My sister Karen's considerable wrath was incited if you said she was four eleven, her true height, instead of five feet Besides, there are no songs about women shorter than five feet.)

[Ariesman81]

Nah, 4'11" is perfect. Any shorter than that and you start running into attitude issues.

[Asker]

And your not a pedo are u

[Asker]

And how tall are you

[Ariesman81]

Oh, I'm definitely a pedo. The more hairless and naive the better. Baby like even.

[Ariesman81]

Too short for you

[Vegasrunner]

No, guys don't care about a woman's height.

[DCVsMarvel2]

I have a coworker, your height. She's married

[Anonymous]

I dated someone in college who was 4’11. She was fun. We dated for over a year. I’m 6’0 for reference.

[Chayce]

It's fine

[Asker]

How tall are you though

[Chayce]

6ft. The women I usually deal with are between 5'1"-5'4" tall

[Asker]

So wouldn’t 4”11 be too short

[Chayce]

No I'd be open to it. I like a small petite woman.

[Asker]

Why?

[Chayce]

because it doesn't feel like i'm dating a ball player

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes.

[Asker]

How tall are u thiugh

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m 6’6

[Asker]

So that’s like way above average 🤣 I wouldn’t expect u to want someone a foot and a half shorter

[BarryLiverstone]

Probably not. That would mean she’s above average

[BarryLiverstone]

Could wear heels tho lol

[Asker]

What all the time? No u go ahead and date a 5”7+ woman they will be pleased to have u

[BarryLiverstone]

Happy to have your permission

[BarryLiverstone]

Don’t wear heels all the time. Would not make the beach as fun

[zombiewoof]

Nope, just right

[Asker]

How tall are u tho

[zombiewoof]

5'7"