Have you ever had a crush on someone older than you?

[Thegirl_234]

Should age range be an issue?

[ohsheeT]

Of course I have. When I was 16 1/2 i was babysitting for a lady and when she got home. The other lady that she went out with. Ask me if I wanted a ride home. Because it was Late, I said sure.

Come to find out. She lived like 2 blocks from. We stopped at her house first.
In time, one thing led to another and it was a great experience. She was forty seven

Almost a year went by and and she told me she was going to get back with her husband.
I said what
I didn't know she was even married but anyway I was sad. And then she hooked me up with one of her friends who is 30 sevand we dated. It actually wasn't dated we did things together

I mean, I knew that they were over but it didn't matter to me. Because we we are on the same level playing field

With both women.
I never told any of my friends or anybody about them. Because I didn't think it was anybody else's business. And I didn't want it to get back to my parents or anybody.

I knew back then. It wasn't going to last forever and with both women. We had talked about it, so we just let things happen. And when it was over it was over, we both moved on.

I wouldn't change your thing. I would do it again. It was the best. Some of the best experiences that i've had and I learned a lot

[Twalli]

Age range needs to be considered, but it's less of an issue as you get older. I see nothing wrong with a 40-year-old and 60-year-old together, while 20 and 40 would be a different story. Likewise, I started dating my girlfriend when I was 27, she was 32. No huge issue there. She started dating at 18, if I dated her when she was 18, I would have been 13, that would have been a problem even if we didn't have sexual relations.

[nastyb]

Do you really think a 40 yr old would want to get together with a 60 yr old? Really? This is why large age gaps are a problem. Things might work well if theyre 25 and 45. But by the time one of them hits 60, they might find themselves married to a senior citizen

[Anonymous]

of course, age gap is an important issue.

a relationship might work out if you're 30 and they're 45. But once you are 45 and they're 60, it will be very hard for you to be fulfilled being in a relationship like that. By then, you'd be too old to start all over again so you will have to stay married to a spouse who can't keep up with you in any way shape or form. Someone you're not at all physically attracted to either.

Differences in sex drive too. There is no way a senior citizen at 60 can keep up with a sex drive of a 45 yr old. Unless you want to be in a sexless marriage, go for a large age gap.

[PretzelBeanie]

Of course I have.

It was only an issue when the age gap was significant, which was in high-school I had a crush on one of my teachers. He wasn't old, but he was definitely an adult. It was frustrating, but I got over it. Looking back it was probably annoying for him too. At least I paid attention in class, lol.

[DishLady]

Yeah. This kid who used to come to class during our lunchtime and play the guitar for us. SUCH a cutie. He was 14ish and I was 4.


Hmm… dreamy mf.

[avery58]

Yes in the past, and yes the age range definitely was an issue in this case when I was very young and he was 10+ years older than me. It completely turned me off from men significantly older than me in every way.

[InknKink]

When I was younger, absolutely, as I get older, not really.

It's different for men then it is for women. The traits men value are typically found in younger women while the traits women value are typically found in older men.

[nastyb]

most of us want older, but there is a limit to how much older.

[AvaRay]

Yeah ofc.. he is 4th years older than me before I m being in relationship with anyone in my life

N he is my 1st love..

[Kaneki05]

I dated much older when I was younger so yeah. Don't really recommend it but hey longs if you know it's what you want go for it.

[RHK36]

Yeah a few times. Oldest was like 12 years older than me when I was in my later 30s.

[TiffanySpooky]

I’m 24 my ex was 59

I was 19 my ex was 33

I think that answers

[Emanon16]

Yes I had and no problem.

[jazzy34]

All the time, LOL.

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Yess..

[eagle1951]

nope