Do you think its ok to look at hotter people while on a date?

[Anonymous]

I won't dump a guy for looking at hot girls while on a date but I will keep it as a tally at the back of my mind as one of the reasons why I shouldn't marry him. Once enough reasons accumulate in the tank, I break up with him. So... just be careful if you are doing disrespectful things such as being on your phone too much while on dates, consistently not texting back on time, being late for dates, canceling dates, not making time for us. Girls see things like that. I wouldn't point it out immediately but over time, it builds and we will find other men more interesting. We like it when our men obsess over us. If you won't obsess over us, we will find one who will be

[ohsheeT]

When you go out with a man there's no reason for him to be on his phone. If he looks at a girl. That doesn't mean that he wants to get in her pants. It means a lot of different things like what she might be wearing how she carries herself. The style of her hair it goes in one eye and out the other. Some of us look to just look with out even a thought. If i'm dating somebody or if I'm in a relationship. And a girl walks by me and I see something interesting on her. I Hey check that out. What do you think about that dress or what do you think about, that hairstyle or look at those thigh high boots? Do you like those.

That's one thing I'm not afraid of doing. Is looking at somebody because they grabbed my attention for a reason. I find beauty in everybody. I look at so if I'm dating somebody, I'm loyal.
Being beautiful doesn't mean i'm going to look at you in that way. But if you have on a bad ass pair of pants are coat or whatever and you get my attention i'm gonna look. And just let you know when a guy does something that you don't again depending on the guy.
And the reason why he's doing what he's doing. But if he's on his phone, that means he's bored. Or it's work and if it's a girl you'll know that in a heartbeat, just bye he look in his eyes.

[Danny_dan92]

Might as well not date that person and not waste your and their time

[Vevv123]

If a guy has wandering eyes it’s done, it won’t get past that. I find staring alone disrespectful because that’s what I was taught. It shows a lack of maturity and common sense. Personally not only do I not find the reasoning to stare at strangers, but I personally think only lustful creeps do it. Not only that, but if they have a partner, that looks terrible and it makes it look like he’s uninterested in his partner and he’s desperately looking for someone to stare back and give him attention. It’s looks cringey and it makes me mad and sickened. It just reminds me that some men will never appreciate what they have beside them and I will die alone before I ever get a chance of being with a man like that.

[Anonymous]

It's normal to glance, but his attention should be entirely be on you. Giving another girl repeated attention would be a big red flag. That other stuff clearly show he doesn't value you as a long term partner.

[Asker]

Even 1 glance isn't good. It ruins the mood of the whole date
And for those who say " its normal to look" .

Well if looking is more important than persuading a girl to marry you, then go ahead and look

Cuz no woman would want to marry a man who looks at hot girls while on a date.

[Asker]

Im not gonna yell at your for looking. I will just keep track of all the reasons why I shouldn't marry you. When the day comes where the reasons just accumulate, we will just break up

It has to do with respect.

[Opinion Owner]

If I was on a date with a girl, she would be my main focus. By glance I meant like less than a second if someone walks by. I'm normally someone who has their head in the clouds, so I'm somewhat astute about my surroundings.

[Asker]

How would you feel if you are with a girl who glances at every hotter guy she sees?

[Asker]

You can say its normal to look. But it ruins the mood

And i have been on enough dates to be able to tell if a guy is looking at a hotter girl. If you notice her, dont think i won't notice her either. And definitely dont just assume I won't notice you looking

[Asker]

You dont need to glance at every single person who walks by you, especially while in a conversation with someone else, that is impossible to do. Unless you're just not looking at the person you are talking to

[Opinion Owner]

Obviously, that would make me feel bad. When in conversation, I'll definitely give her my full attention. When I really, really, like a girl, all of attention seems to mindlessy wander to her anyway. I'd expect her to be just as observant as I would be on her behavior. It definitely wouldn't be every person that walks by. I have a wandering mind, so it wouldn't even have to be an attractive women that distracts me. It could be a dog, someone's shirt, or anything completely random.

[Anonymous]

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