What does it feel like to be kissed?

[thegreenyogi]

Try and put into words what you experience in the way of sensations when someone kisses you.

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8 mo

I asked this question because I honestly don't know what it feels like because nobody has kissed me yet. Just being honest.

[OneViewpoint]

You’re 34 years old and you’ve never kissed anyone? What are you waiting for?

• Convent doesn’t permit it?
• You’ve heartlessly rejected thousands of guys while waiting for Chad or Tyrone?
• Lips have been chapped for 20 years?
• Mom and Dad won’t permit you to see boys?
• Oral hygiene hang up?
• Horoscope hasn’t aligned yet?
• Kissing is boring and you get straight to the good stuff? Damn girl.

[thegreenyogi]

Lol!! No guy has ever approached me and kissed me. Don't ask me why because I don't know. I definitely get looks of appreciation but not many approach me. What's more guys ask me out and then the evening of the date they don't show up. I'm not typically a woman that puts herself out there or approaches first so... you're the man. You tell me...

[OneViewpoint]

Ah, I’ve got it. You’re that angry scary girl with the “I’ll rip your head off if you approach me” look. You terrify guys.

Kidding, you seem well balanced and intelligent with a healthy adult personality. You may be shy but I have trouble seeing you as off putting in any way.

Do you live in a town with shy backward guys?

Has your father has threatened to kill any guy who so much as looks at you.

Italian guys are looking for airheads?

[thegreenyogi]

Lol!! Thank you for the compliments. Guys seem to be shy with me yes. And like I said those who ask me out and that I say yes to don't show up. And I'm not sure why that is. Is it fear? Is it because they change their mind? Is it because setting a date and not following through is not greatly important anymore in this world? Does that excuse a person from not being decent enough to let the other now that it's not going to happen? I'm very confused.

As for me you have certainly figured me out.

[dragoblack]

Many guys are scared because of accusations that they deal with, and other toxic women that treat them like crap, especially if they are heathy minded & non-toxic guys who treat women right.
Players on the other hand are only in for the hookup. If they feel you won't put out on the first date, they will bounce.
It's not you, dating is just toxic and healthy romance is near nonexistant, because so many crave toxicity and drama to be entertained, and so many don't know how to handle a healthy relationship, because they are so used to abusive partners & relationships.

[thegreenyogi]

@dragoblack Thank you!!

[OneViewpoint]

@dragoblack ,

Dude, I'm honestly not seeing what you're describing where I am. Not in the men I know and not in the women I interact with. But I have no idea what's going on with dating culture in Italy in any given community relative to the internet impact on dating culture.

But then all the people I know and interact with are NOT on dating apps. We ONLY interact face to face in places where the social network in residence will weed out assholes and players almost instantly. Everyone behaves themselves. No one is standing up a date unless they they were in a car accident on the way to the date. And no one is ghosting anyone because you're gonna have to see them face to face the next week. And everyone is gonna know about it. That shit primarily happens online, behind a keyboard and computer/phone screen. There is something to be said for a social circle, even a loose community of "regulars" in a certain place. Even the assholes will think twice about becoming an outcast.

[dragoblack]

@OneViewpoint it does vary from place to place, and yeah, a great deal of the time, it's big cities where everyone is so busy you need an app to find someone. I know outside of the USA, dating culture and society is way healthier minded and the expectations are way different.
USA tends to run on the 1920s (might even be earlier than that)"American dream" standard, which the sex based expectations are way outdated and unstable for the current economy & society. Sure, if you both agree to live by those standards go for it, but the majority of men can't really do that, mix it with men listening to the feminist movement (not the extremist version that hates men) of not wanting to be cat-called, asking for consent, and treating women as people with equal human rights (which I'm all for. Treat people as people); the old objectifying standards of courtship doesn't really work, so a lot of men are confused on what to do besides pickup lines, plus there's the dating abuse from women using them for free stuff, the lack of straightforward honest communication, the emotional abuse, the manipulation tactics, the near constant hinting, the "her losing complete interest over 1 word or some insignificant reason", then mix that with the online dating bullshite of being ghosted, false-flag spam matches, the matches with women who don't really care or show any interest... etc. and toxic ex-relationships,... many guys who constantly deal with all of that, get tired of all that bullshite and end up developing emotional & mental walls, insecurities, overthinking, dating anxiety, lack of confidence, and/or just gets jaded. So, when a healthy minded and honest woman comes along, those kind of men either toxicly lash out or ghost.

[TonyMetal___86]

Tbh the only romantic kisses that i had were from my ex wife, at first it was funny but then they were exciting and made us feel closely connected to each other...

I miss being kissed and giving kisses back, it's because i believe that a romantic kiss shall only be shared by a couple who are married or planning to get married...

[TonyMetal___86]

@thegreenyogi you're a 34 year old girl from Italy and never been kissed? 😳 i'm shocked!
To be a virgin, okay i get it but never been kissed, that was surprising, since you have waited all this long, make sure that your 1st kiss is going to be special 😊

[thegreenyogi]

@TonyMetal_86 I will definitely make sure its special!! Thank you!!🙃

[TonyMetal___86]

You're welcome miss green yogi 😌

[thegreenyogi]

🫶...

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks for the mho 😌

[thegreenyogi]

You're welcome!!🙃

[Simslover92]

It's an amazing feeling when it's the right person. It's like you're doing a dance with the person but only with your mouths. The tongue helps to deepen the dance and makes you feel really connected with them.

[aaron13547]

Like a person wants to be with you in ways words aren't good enough to express. I can't explain it but i feel the way I "vibrate" and I can feel how other people "vibrate". When I kiss someone it's like we both change the way we vibrate for each other, it becomes the same in all the best ways. Words aren't good enough. its like the feeling of fear being transformed into acceptance. It's like when you feel ashamed and turn it into gratitude. For me to be kissed is the same feeling as everything bad not mattering as much as everything good only some one else gives me that feeling instead of it coming from myself. That's the best I can do with words...

[Miristheiss]

Wait, what?

You are 34 years old? You have have had romantic kisses?

Ok, what is the story behind that?

If you were an overweight, broke ugly guy I might understand but you are a woman. Per your pic you are not drop dead gorgeous but you are pleasant looking enough.

You hit puberty at 12-13 so a totally normal looking woman has gone 20 years and never kissed? This sounds made up.

[thegreenyogi]

It's not made up. However I understand people choosing not to believe me on this one.

[Miristheiss]

Like I said, I believe it more on a guy's side because women are so much more picky than men and women are the pursued sex. Hell, I kissed girls when I was 9 and 10 years old and had my first open mouth passionate kiss while I was still in high school and I was just an average guy and I was quite shy in 9th and 10th grade. Per your pictures you are a nice looking lady. This is very, very unusual. You must really turn down a lot of guys. You haven't just grabbed a date and given them a big kiss just to see what it is like and get this out of the way already?

[thegreenyogi]

I haven't turned down a lot of guys at all. Not many guys approach me easily. And the times they have and I have said yes to a date I was stood up. So honestly it just hasn't happened for me yet. But I guess we live in the world we live in where somebody like me is labelled as odd or unusual instead of someone who has simply had a different trajectory...

[Miristheiss]

Well, I feel bad for you. You are a fun poster, I wish you success in romance and finding a cool guy who wants you in his life.

[thegreenyogi]

Thank you on both counts.

[Kelley1]

That depends on who kisses you. If your dream movie star, you are on cloud nine for two days. However, you would be grossed out if it were the following man.

[Purpleronnie]

When it’s the kiss you want , it’s like all around me slows down to a near halt and I’m enveloped in a quiet calmness or serenity. All that exists is her soft moist lips pressed tenderly but passionately against mine , the smell of her perfume , and the slightly sweet taste of her lip balm. The hairs on the back of my next stand on end , the slight head rush and blood coarsing through my veins , my lips fight for control.

[Zack-Bann]

It feels like silence to me


As though the machine that is always turning in my mind and thudding nonstop just took a quick break


When kissing someone, for a brief moment, the past no longer matters the future is not my problem either


It’s serenity in the purest form


But then the kiss ends and it’s back to the real world

[Tarifa]

It involves all the senses, not just touch. It sends a shiver down your spine. It involves physical closeness with that particular person. Time stops, nothing else matters. You are physically and mentally drawn into the private sphere you both share at that moment.

[PeachyPie93]

Depends who you kiss..
It usually feels soft and sends tingles all over your body it can be fun to feel their tongue in your mouth and if they play well it can be really good and sensual. I personally love kissing with a good kisser.

[red-lipstick-girl]

About a year ago, I kissed the man I loved. It was my real kiss. I felt extremely warm and released happiness hormones. I don't know if I will ever experience this feeling again. I want that moment back.

[Shiprex]

It's different depending on who and how is doing the kissing. Normally it's nice and pleasantly soft but can be breath taking (literally if you're concentrating on the other.

[Nik1hil]

It felt soft and tender, warm breath and tasted like Rose - In a Dream that I once had...

Seriously, 😅I really don't know how it feels😅. Not a clue!

[exitseven]

It is confusing. Something that is so odd yet it feels amazing.

[Nikki1989]

It triggers feelings of pleasure and euphoria.

[dragoblack]

It's like an adrenalin rush with each kiss. You want to lean in to caress and hold them close. Also a great deal of the time it will make you horny. But normally that all applies if they are good at kissing and you both feel the vibe for eachother.

[WhitneySnow]

It feels amazing. Sweet and romantic and erotic all at the same time.

[zombiewoof]

like love it is difficult to describe, but it affects the entire body, nerve endings respond to...

[Guanfei]

I honestly don't remember. Didn't get a kiss in a long time.

[Bloodparadise]

I don't know.. but when I'm hugged I'll probably be turned on

[Jerre]

I love kissing, especially tongue to tongue. Really makes me horny and gives me an erection

[Jerre]

@thegreenyogi Thank you for the Like

[Lipsandhips]

Same question, it sounds pretty exciting though.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

wtf?

a 34 year old woman from Italy is asking this?

[Anonymous]

I don't know. The last time i was it was back in January 2005

[Hotboy_booblover]

It feels amazing... like being closest to the person u like.. and being privileged to touch your lips to hers

[CherryLove007]

The right KiSS is majestic! xoxo

[MeAndYouRightHere]

Would rather be kissed around my D lol

[MeAndYouRightHere]

Would you do that? Lol

[thegreenyogi]

No but it was amusing to read your response.

[MeAndYouRightHere]

Thank you :) im glad if i made you smile at least:) if you dm me, i may make you smile more:))

[thegreenyogi]

I've sent you a message.

[MeAndYouRightHere]

Thanks

[ChicoFromThe305]

I guess this makes me feel better

[Eddaisy]

It's a very good feeling

[WonderingManII]

don't know I never been kissed

[Athena7_]

It can be electric, soft.

[msc545]

It's been so long that I've actually forgotten.

[wkhan_87]

It's a feeling full of excitement and satisfying

[wkhan_87]

It triggers excitement and intimacy

[Anonymous]

I don't know, I never had a kiss :(

[Opinion Owner]

About the update - I know how you feel.

[Awesomesauce2005]

Amazing 🤩

[thegreenyogi]

Lol!

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t know

[azgınteke]

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[Dazlaar81]

Where do you want to be kissed?

[bunniesrcute]

dont know🤷‍♀️