I'm back on Tinder and I don't have any real matches... I had 4, but 2 were clearly not my type, 1 unmatched me, and another never responded to my greeting.. what should I do?





I'm back on Tinder and I don't have any real matches... I had 4, but 2 were clearly not my type, 1 unmatched me, and another never responded to my greeting.. what should I do?





Every photo you have has an issue:
Shirtless photos only work if you’re jacked.
You’re not. So remove it
First photo you’re sitting uncomfortably and looking completely out of shape
Remove it
Second photo you’re smiling like a serial killer. Also no selfies.
Remove that one as well
Third photo you look small in stature and presence, also out of shape.
You know what to do.
The bio is too long and feminine. You’re describing yourself and no one needs that description.
Keep it short and sweet, fun and flirty
Which is the Tinder golden rule
Now to fix it:
First there’s no two ways about it you need to get in shape. Diet, gym, jogging, all that stuff
Second maybe try growing, beard trim it and fade it out. It will help with your face shape especially considering you’re bald.
And you should fully embrace the baldness not try to hide it with a hat (it never works)
Get better photos: ideally a photoshoot but you can also do it with a friend if you don’t know any photographer that’s good.
First photo: a clear picture that shows your face but not a selfie and not a picture of you looking at the camera.
A natural shot of you walking or running or sitting down with a small drink in hand
Second picture: activity photo.
You doing something interesting, a sport, some kind of craft, riding a bike, playing the guitar.
Anything like that which you can do would be great
Third photo: location.
Something worldly, exotic. Maybe you on a trip somewhere but always looking nice and flattering never hunched back or just standing there lost
4th photo: social proof.
This one is optional but if you have a natural photo that shows you hanging around friends you can add it
Just make sure your friends don’t look more attractive than you
Also a dog photo is a good idea but again you need to look good yourself at all times
Maybe a photo of you playing with the dog or lifting it up and smiling or something that looks natural and wholesome
Do all that and you’ll begin to see matches
Solid advice. I don't think I can add to that
Don't ever swipe left, because the algorithm will keep you from being shown. Block any profiles that include Instagram & snapchat (they are just OF solicitors), ladies with their hand below their chin (red flag profiles), and are just random images. Refresh your profile[not account] by deleting and reposting it (the algorithm shows new profiles more). also, be on every day, because after a week the give away a free boost or superlike
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Don’t give up but think about other places you might be able to meet people.
Explore all options.
If you want matches on tinder, I might consider transitioning towards becoming a woman.
Your profile needs serious retooling. Especially for online dating. Biggest thing is getting into shape
Look for note interactions in everyday life rather than placing too much hope on an app... You could meet someone in the grocery store... Coffee shop... Bar etc...
Move to Slovenia. You'll be a big hit there.
You look older than 25...
Are you on other dating apps?
give up
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