How often does your partner take you out on dates or take you somewhere?

[Someone34]

How often? Also add situation in your life right now, that might help people understand if the numbers are lower or higher. And can compare or get a good view of what would be a median in certain situations.

[midnightmoon05]

Well.. hubby is a stay home dad… our role is kinda reversed and working well.
we both go out on weekends for special events… see family, dinner out with friends. Out with kids… out on our own…

other times, he wakes up with me, makes me my drink and sees me out (hugs and kisses). we write little notes/cards. Surprised with specity foods. He sends me flowers to work just because … he is now on vacation with my brother and his son (my nephew)…

our lives are tangled in ways of joy, happiness, surprises and peace is seek when we can. But married to me? 😂 always lots of ideas and changes.
there is no dull moment heheheee…

how often? No idea… since we are always out and about…

now if you are talking about dressing up to go to the opera? Not my thing.
him planning out our trips… 2-4 times a year.

[Someone34]

Thank you for your long reply and willingness to answer the questions. Yes, a lot of our lives look different, but what most have in common are kids, jobs and a lot to do from time to time. The meaning with this thread is to get a good median of what would be normal datewise in different periods of time in life. But sure not everyones life look the same.

[beenherebefore]

A few times a month. Not every week.

[AviatorTom]

My wife always drives, and we go out to dinner a couple times a month. So, she takes me there... and I pay.

[midnightmoon05]

Happy wife happy life 👍

[Anonymous]

I'm single so never.

But if I had a girlfriend, I hope she would.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[Nikki1989]

Two to three times a month. Our romantic nights out haven't changed in the 16+ years we have been together.

[Abbycado]

Being at a university, weekdays are typically busy. So I go out with the girls one night and the boyfriend the other on the weekend.

[itsannalee]

Once a week

[Godihateyou]

Never. Never has. Im the guy.

[Someone34]

Just unfair role of woeing. Guys has that role in biology, so the dating continues in the relationship so to speak. But its more than that, women like to be surprised, they want a little saga/romance and are more emotional driven then men. I think a man planning dates can be a huge advantage in keeping a relationship alive because of how women are biologically.

Then you might plan things to do together aswell, but its really important to respect men aswell, we dont have as much energy as women and we are constructed another way. Its important for man to recharge, doing "nothing" is important aswell.