Guys’ would you let a young beautiful sweet caring girl be your Sugar momma?

[Finchie40]

I met a beautiful younger girl that’s all about me that wants to be my sugar mommy , I never experienced anything like this from a girl and it’s actually turning me on that she wants to take care of me , even though I don’t want her to. But part of me thinks why not , if she is insisting , What would you do?

[Crimsyjo]

This question makes me feel 🤢 but I'm sure it happens a lot. I have been pretty much sugar mommy to one if my fwbs even tho I didn't intend to be. I'm just very kind and giving. But that doesn't mean you should be a user or taker. Why can't you accept gifts and her kindness but also give and be kind back? At least offer. She probably has self-worth issues and feels giving is how she can buy love. What she needs is a decent kind guy who shows her she can still be loved without having to do this. And sure if she enjoys it and it's in her nature (as it is in mine) she won't necessarily stop but she deserves to feel it's a choice not a requirement. She probably has deep seated psychological issues and your track record hasn't been great so far with attracting women that turn haha. Cos she could also turn into one of those bunny boilers screaming how much she gave and lashing out if it doesn't work out.

I don't think you should be thinking about the "thrill" of sugar mommy. If your decent guy you should be thinking of her as a person and if she is someone you want to try have a future with. Not how much you can use her.

I swear.. there's no decent guys left in this world..

[Finchie40]

That’s the thing , I don’t want to use her , I told her money isn’t what I am looking for , I am looking for a real connection and chemistry, love , so I don’t want her money whatsoever, but she keeps insisting I take. I asked her why she wants to do this? And she said because most guys’ think a girl is just after his money , and money isn’t an issue for her. So I told her I am not after her money whatsoever

[Crimsyjo]

Honestly? Hard to say from this distance and lack of knowledge of scams or dodgy people but like I'd be very careful. Make sure there is text or paper trail of her offering and you refusing and her insisting. I mean, what if later she says you were blackmailing her for money or some other crime? Sounds a bit fishy really. Even fact she says "men think i use them for money" ... like ok. Prove that by not asking for money, buying your own things, paying your share on dates. Why throw money at someone?
Really really odd behaviour. Be wary.

[RxR0954]

lmfao im sorry but i’d be embarrassed if i let that happen. Giving off the “tricking kids into giving you all their secret stash of candies after they’re kind enough to offer a share”. On the other hand, much older women who i can be sure are fully aware of what they’re doing? Sure.

[HawkPerception]

Eh, mixed feelings. On one side, it would feel pretty emasculating to me. I think if I have the means to provide for myself, I'd rather do that.

But I admit it's refreshing to know there are women who actually want to take care of their man as much as a man wants to take care of their woman. I might honestly do it if I was given the opportunity and feel what it's like on the other side for a bit.

Women don't understand that men want to feel taken care of as well.

[RavVid]

What does momma mean in this case? A Sugar Daddy provides money mostly. Does a Sugar Momma provide money or does she want to clean up after you and make sure you are eating nutritiously.

I'm a bit ignorant on Sugar momma's and what they do.

Cutting to the chase if she is 1. beautiful 2. younger 3. caring the I think you should lap it all up.

[Finchie40]

She just wants to be generous to me and give me money , I told her I don’t want her money

[RavVid]

I would reject the money too... but would accept cooking, cleaning and general caring if that is on the table.

[FirePhoenixZ]

Sweet, young, beautiful, caring, sounds lovely.

But if I’m going to invest my time, energy, and heart in someone, it won’t be for the title of “sugar” or for appearances.

Mutual respect, alignment, and shared values are non-negotiable.

Money can’t buy authenticity, loyalty, or curiosity and those are the only currencies that matter at my table.

[nolabels]

That sounds too good to be true, so it probably is too good to be true.

There's almost certainly gonna be a catch in there somewhere, somehow.

If it were me, I'd be sorely tempted to go along for the ride, but I'd probably be constantly on guard, alert for the speed bumps that may be waiting somewhere up ahead.

That'll wear a guy out sooner rather than later.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Yeah, I had a similar situation where I hooked up with an older woman and and when I was leaving her house, she wanted to give me all of this homemade food, I was like no thank you but she insisted so I gave it and then she was trying to give me a $100 and I was no, that's okay but once again she insisted. Then it just became her routine, I would come over spend some time with her, have sex and then she would give me all of this yummy food and $100. One time she invited me and she was on her period and she gave me a blowjob instead of sex and she still gave me all of this food and $100. It was really nice to be taken care of like that since I've always been poor and never had anyone take care of me before including my parents.

[hafinjun]

Yes id be turned on too , I assume she's not hard to look at? I had a guy want to do that with me wanted to fund a transition even. Unfortunately we never could agree to boob size he wanted me to get whatever the biggest size there was when he tried to call me. on it.

[Flowersareawsome22]

She is smart and know that you are mature and that you wear your big boy pants and you don't ask Mommy for permission something guys my own age are all a bunch of momma's boys. My boyfriend he is 48 and I take care of him I cook for him give him massage I buy him things I see nothing wrong. I say go for it , Maybe she wants wisdom and mature real men.

[Finchie40]

Does your boyfriend take care of you as well? I am all about being with a partner , a girl that wants to work with me and not against me , a girl that has my back the same way I have hers, I don’t need a girl to take care of me , I just want a girl that loves me the same way I love her , Give and take , My ex was a user , that decided to no longer be my partner , a to g like she should be catered to at all times and barely have to lift a finger , So opposite of her is what I am seeking

[Purpleronnie]

The idea , just on the face value may seem appealing.. I understand that , but I think it would feel hollow and shallow to have that without at least her having a genuine understanding and love for who I am. I’d want to feel that I’d earned that love , care and support for who I am for all my positives and the acceptance of my flaws.


To me , that relationship neither sounds right nor healthy , my machismo just couldn’t let that happen.


I’d rather fly solo

[AgentG111]

Seems like way too many nice words to describe a female.

[Jamie05rhs]

I have met girls like that before. It always makes me feel awkward. I don't want to take anyone's money. I want love, not money.

[lorenzomichael]

No not for me I’m too manly to have a sugar momma. Besides my wife is my sugar momma and I’m her sugar daddy.

[OneViewpoint]

Nah, I'm too independent. I don't want to be any woman's sugar daddy and I don't want any woman to be a sugar momma to me. It just feels like a weird dynamic for me.

[Curmudgeon]

Younger? The term refers to older women looking for "boy toys" or rebounding from bad divorces. But anyway, quid pro quo, do lots and lots of nice things for her in return, etc.

[loveslongnails]

I see no downside. If you decide against it, send her to me. LOL

[Someone34]

Just watch your organs and have fun. Might end up in a bathtub filled with ice and a big scar on your stomach.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Even a fat old broad if she had enough caish and let me club buxom babes !!!

[Anonymous]

If she's my type, I would most likely accept.

[exitseven]

I dont know Finchie. it sounds fishy to me.

[Finchie40]

No , she just has the hits for me and wants to make me happy , , but I told her she makes me happy not her Money

[seeyounexttuesday]

I'll take things that didn't happen for $200, Alex.

[msc545]

Not really because that person probably is a scammer.

[Hªnnªh]

I would accept to be sugar mommy for an older person only if he can lift me over his head

[curiousandhonest]

No. I certainly would with an older woman though

[Anonymous]

Haha dude's getting catfished...

[Finchie40]

I know her personally

[Opinion Owner]

Mhmm sure

[Finchie40]

Ummmm yea sure

[Anonymous]

You are 47, right?

[Finchie40]

Yes I am

[Cidknee]

You damn straight!

[RedInnocent69]

I’d be delighted to try

[guesswhereivebeen]

Fuck yes

[Alex-Snow]

Sounds like fun

[Urfknqueenx]

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