Is it bad that I fantasized about one of my girlfriend's friends?

[Anonymous]

It happened last night and I'm sure why, I woke up like "Um, okay".

[zayndan]

Dreams mean nothing and you can't control it. Because if you could, im sure you would've stopped it. Now if you're intentionally thinking about it during the day and the thought of it pleases you, that's different. And many people have done that, but it's not right at all.

[Asker]

Many people think about dreams, nothing unusual. Besides, I thought this was the place for such discussions.

[Summeroflove]

Emotional cheating. If you feel bad it was probably wrong.

[Nikki1989]

So not getting any?

A little immature, are you?

[slatyb]

It's completely normal, but maybe you should be dating her instead.

[Asker]

What makes you say that?

[slatyb]

you are fantasizing about her instead of your girlfriend

[zombiewoof]

We all have fantasies

[Asker]

Have you seen Christmas Vacation?

[zombiewoof]

Too many times

[Asker]

It was like fantasy sequence in that movie, except with no kid to interrupt.

[Anonymous]

We all do it.

[Asker]

I felt kinda guilty because we kissed in it and I imagined what she looked like naked as she undressed.