Are some people better off single?

[bubbles328]

Are some people just happier on their own? I just feel no matter what another person does for me and no matter how perfect they are they will never be able to make me happy. I feel I am the only person who can make me happy

[DishLady]

• Some people def don't belong in relationships bc it makes them toxic, jealous, petty, etc. so they make everyone around them miserable.
• Some people def don't belong in relationships bc they're very self-serving so they never take the other person's wants and needs fully into consideration.
• Some people def don't belong in relationships bc they become overly "wimpy" or opt to change too much... so much so that they lose themselves and are no longer the person their partner fell for.
• Some people are better off single than with the wrong person. Better to struggle with simple pragmatic things alone than to suffer with a person who is not right for you.

[Nikki1989]

Some are. The harsh reality is that certain individuals are simply unworthy of a relationship.

[aaron13547]

Being happier single and better off single are very different. Our brains were designed to keep us safe not make us happy.

Happy feels like being safe when other people let us down over and over and over. I agree with you I feel the same way im happier single but im starting to question if im really better off single... life tends to be a lot easier and much more enjoyable when I can trust someone else.

The hard part is trusting myself to find and trust the right person...

[RHK36]

People not healed should stay single until they're healed. Humans are social creatures and need people. Which is why damaged people inevitably will seek company even when they're not healed still. Just grow up and stay humble. Be good and consistent. Most people don't want to do that which leaves an influx of people seemingly thinking they're better off alone.

[dragoblack]

I would say the ones who are toxic, petty, emotionally immature, self-serving, doesn't treat guys as people, refuse to or don't work on themselves to overcome their insecurities & trauma and work on becoming emotionally wise & intelligent, and anyone who says they want a healthy relationship, but gets turned off by healthy minded romance behavior.

[Berethor]

You asexual? it hard to believe that anyone would prefer to be single over relationship.

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[FunkyMonkee]

Yes!! I used to know this one guy that was SUPREMELY annoying! EVERYONE hated him!!! He was like white Urkel!! Yet, HE HAD A FUCKING GIRLFRIEND!!! If ANYBODY should be kept from spawning at ALL COSTS, it should be HIM!!!

[capriVib]

That’s how it is, what will truly make a person happy is themselves. A relationship is like a bonus that comes alongside people who are already happy internally.

[Staximus]

Sounds like you have some personal problems you need to deal with. There's no such thing as the perfect person and it's not their job to make you happy. Maybe you should stop making yourself miserable

[MidnightRivers]

I think so, and it depends on what you want in life. But there's also someone for everyone out there

[Alex-Snow]

Some are for sure. But hopefully it is their choice.

[DarKnight36]

Yes, it becomes easier and more effective for you to discover yourself.

[LC75LC71]

Yes. This guy right here. And I say that after 9 years of living together experience.

[Jeff51]

Been married for 15 years. Sometimes I think what if im still single.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, people who can't stay faithful. People who can't pair bond. People who engage in casual sex.

[Paige90]

Yes, some people are better being alone

[Anonymous]

I hope so.

[Randomguy28]

Yes same here

[Anonymous]

Yes.