Are white men really jealous of black men when it comes to dating?

[Anonymous]

white woman says white men are jealous of Black men pic.twitter.com/MyHTM6Ppaq

— BlackSword (@Blacksword011) March 9, 2026

She talks about how many white men consider white women as tainted if they ever dated a black or brown man. Her hypothesis is that white men reaction to this stems from jealousy, which is supported further by so many white men obsessing over black men on social media.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Unless white men all suddenly became racist, insecure and quite stupid, it is not happening lol.

An undefined amount of trashy opinions over the internet doesn't talk for men, it just talks for specific circles feeding on either conspiracy or trolling scenarios.

[Asker]

have you been checking social media recently? White men have been getting very vocally and open with racism.

if a colored person gets a good paying job they refer to him as DEI and underserving.
If a show has a non-white protagonist or female it's WOKE
if a woman dates a black or brown man she is trash/dirty.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

What you're reporting isn't "social media", what you're talking about is US centric, DEI means nothing outside of the US, same overall for Woke, just US talking about US.

On top of that, it's one sphere of social media you're looking at, and not the brightest one as I said already. There are many other spheres than this 4chan discourse you're reporting, thank god lol

[Anonymous]

I think this is coming from her actually. And her inability to control a white man's decision making.

I don't think ANY guy likes to picture a woman they have interest in with ANY other guy whether he be black, brown, white or whatever. Now if that guy has a personal prejudice with a race, that's his problem. But I think more likely the reason is women have types. Men have types to. But not nearly to the extent women do. And I'm not just talking race and color. I'm talking EVERYTHING! Height, weight, builds (thick, thin, muscular), aggressive, laid back, etc. I could write a book on the variety. But the point is, it probably more likely the guy sees a woman that has dated a black guy, or black guy after black guy. And thinks to himself, "I clearly lack what SHE is attracted to". Guy learn pretty quick what women are just largely a waste of his effort and energy.

[Anonymous]

You find one woman on TikTok of all places and take it as the gospel. Sad...

[LazerBean]

I don't think anybody is jealous of black men for anything, TBH.

[Asker]

so why do white men constantly obsess about black men on social media and feel the need to shame white women for dating black men?

[LazerBean]

I don't see anyone constantly obsessing about black men on social media. Women get shamed for dating black men because they end up single mothers.

[Asker]

There is literal twitter/X accounts with over 500k followers that do nothing but post about how awful white women are that date black men. There is literally like 5 different slurs directed at them. White women who have shared their relationship online often are hit with racist comments wishing them a horrible life.

[LazerBean]

Twitter is notorious for having a huge amount of bot accounts. And most people know not to believe everything they see on the internet anyway

[Asker]

So all the slurs directed towards white women that date black, which predates X, all the incident of women being harassed by people online (outside of X) for being with a black man are just bots?

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[Asker]

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[Asker]

[LazerBean]

Everyone has a slur that describes them, women who date black men are not special to that. According to a lot of people, it is not uncommon for women to experience harassment regardless of who they date. I am friends with one lady who had children with black men, and you know who her children get bullied the most by? Black people.

You're throwing out a bunch of opinions, but until you can back them up by actual statistics then you just really don't have an argument.

[Asker]

White are the only group of women that have 5 different slurs directed at them. Other groups of men rarely do this. And while yes, a woman will face harassment from stalkers/parasocial men based on who she dates, it is often white women that get attacked vocally and harshly for dating non-whites. Another example. Faith Ordway. Reveals her boyfriend is black and within minutes gets racist comments and people wishing bad on her.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/NIzpV70z7sA

[LazerBean]

Every group has five different slurs for it 😂 You need to grow up and stop believing everything you see on the internet.

[Asker]

Can you tell me what slurs black men have made towards black women that date white men? I'll wait.

[Berethor]

She had sex with animals basically, who want her after that? black men are unpopular.

[OneViewpoint]

Nope! White men. Black men. Latino men. Asian men. We're all men. Every woman and every man has the right to free choice. It's not anyone else's business. I don't care who her ex was. I care about the person standing in front of me right now.

[GrammariklyIncorrekt]

As a white man, no not at all. If you're confident but not too cocky you'd be surprised. Even if you get turned down, keep your confidence even in that.

[Anonymous]

Oh, well if one random woman on social media says that she knows how all white men feel, it must be true. FFS 🤦

[Anonymous]

I don't think so
I'd say I do more commonly see people of the same race out dating the same race 👀
I do also see more rarely mixed race people dating / out on dates

[Mike_Hum]

It's not jealousy, lol. People on tiktok are retards. They should be disregarded as such.

[Anonymous]

Yes, white men are really jealous of Black men because they have bigger penises. What woman would want okra when there’s eggplant?

[HighValue]

Disgust is not the same as jealous.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Only the insecure ones.

[Jeff51]

Nope. All the same.

[Anonymous]

Nope