What's something infuriating your partner does/did but you never let it show?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Or at least try lol.

I used to live with this girl and I worked a lot and she would wake up in the middle of the night, turn on the lamp and start a conversation with me and then get mad at me that I couldn't follow along.

I wanted to tell her can you shut up and go to sleep it's 4am haha but I figured dating me isn't exactly easy either. It was kinda cute in a totally fucked up way because I got into the habit of taking short naps through the day so she was definitely always on my mind.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Well, for my wife she is a planner and needs everything written out in detail way ahead of time in order to be comfortable. I am very much go with the flow so while we do argue from time to time about it, most times I just concede (part of that go with the flow mentality there) and do it her way.

For both her and my boyfriend though, the one thing they both do that I don't bring up, but it kind of irks me is they both tend to baby me a lot. I have a lot of anxiety, especially when it comes to going out, and they end up just doing everything for me instead of forcing me to confront my fears. A lot of the time that mentality spills over to other things and they make jokes about how they have 3 kids (my wife and I have 2). It's really annoying when they make that joke.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

That's the exact kind of situation that I tend to handle with the grace of a bull in a China shop I'm ngl 😂

You must be good at calming her down though because if you write everything down what does she do when things go sideways?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

She panics and gets lots of anxiety. Lmao we are a perfect pair that way. I remember we did a trip to Vegas that was completely planned out down to the exact times we would be places and while it was admittedly fun, it left no room to explore. When we went back a second time I got my way a bit more and got to actually just chill most of the time (though we still made time to see shows).

[SueShe]

So, you used to live with that girl but not any longer. That leads me to believe that waking up at 4am was not your kind of thing. I understand that you have no topic to talk about at that time of night 😁

I am in the very fortunate situation that I am single and celibate and that I am not likely going to have any kind of issues similar to yours but there would definitely be a million and one situations that would infuriate me or at least getting me upset if I was in a relationship. That is one of the main reasons why I don't want to be in one in the first place.

I tend to speak out how I feel and I don't think that my partner would feel at ease if I mention what is disturbing me about him. So let's keep it simple and avoid any kind of conflicts.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Hmmmmmmm, aaalllright. But if I knew you irl I'd definitely find someone you like

[SueShe]

Good luck with that. You probably know by now what I think about relationships and the obligations that come along 😅

[MrChinaski]

Meh. Don't sweat the small stuff. It's a package deal. Everyone has their quirks.