What are the biggest personality turn-offs in a guy?

[Anonymous]

For me I’ve met guys that are controlling,

selfish is the worst as they don’t care at all about your needs and wishes.

[Summeroflove]

For every woman it’s different some women like toxic men who inside are generally very insecure. Whatever it’s their lives. Just like some men like women who are extremely toxic. Whatever.

I’m a man and not into other dudes. But from my perspective my biggest cringe is seeing dudes who are completely insecure around other men. Either you’re insecure or there’s something you don’t trust about your woman. Either you’re unfairly controlling a good loyal woman or something’s wrong and you need to let her go. In some cases he may really see red flags but you can’t make someone be loyal.

You notice. You notice dudes who are weird around other men when their woman’s around. You show up to an event and it’s sad because you can tell if a woman’s checking a dude out but sometimes she’s not. And you’ll notice he leaves. “We’re leaving” and you know why.

I want to know if I’m seriously with a woman that she loves me and would never cheat on me. I know that someone who’s going to cheat is going to no matter what. If I see the red flags and cannot communicate like adults I hope to God I would just let her go. And not play that game. But some women are genuinely loyal and good as well but ok

[Anonymous]

As a straight man lady, I tell you the fictional guy who got it most accurate is when Hugh Grant narrated his voice over attending the first single parents meeting

For copyright ©️ I can't repeat but he basically says "listening to those women, one thing is certain - men are pricks" 👀😄

[Opinion Owner]

It really does happen , majority of the movie is his narrating his character as if he's a self made man island lol 🏝️ watched it on TV recently by random chance weeks ago "2002s About A Boy" - a famous British / Holywood film 🎥

[SueShe]

Those are the traits of character and assets a person has to have for me to find that person intellectually attractive. Anything that is not in that list, is a turn-off.

- Character
- Intellect
- Personality
- Charisma
- Responsible
- Humor
- Caring
- Open mind
- Being respectful of others, animals and nature
- Not selfish
- Altruism
- Honesty
- Humble
- Generosity
- Simplicity
- Kindness
- Smart
- Empathy
- Positive attitude
- Assertiveness
- Body hygiene

That about summarizes what I seek in another person. I know that will be difficult, but I can still hope, no?

What I am not interested the least are looks, cult of the personality, physique, height, weight and for those that are so worried about that small detail, the size of their penile appendage. That is totally not relevant to me.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, controlling without a doubt is the worst.

[Tomislav7]

Im not sure women have hated me which clearly sucks, im a bit shy but damn I want to be able to love too

[Anonymous]

It depends person to person. Apparently, girls don't like quiet introverts.