What realistic dating and life advice do you have for short men?

[Anonymous]

Just looking for helpful realistic advice.

[OneViewpoint]

You can't do anything about your height. So focus on the things you can work on.

• If you're not in good shape, lose the fat and put on some muscle.
• Dress well wherever you go. Time to let go of backward baseball caps & jeans-n-sneakers. Wear stuff that fits you well.
• Get a good haircut
• Make sure your teeth are white and your nails are trimmed.
• How's your personality? Confident? Friendly? If not, work on that.
• Are you interesting? Why would a woman be intrigued to talk to you? Career, hobbies, education, life experience, general knowledge?
• Are you dependable and reliable?

Mostly, demonstrate boundaries and standards for yourself and others. Never put her before your own self respect. At the end of the day, some women want a tall guy just like some guys want a blonde or a girl with a D-cup breast size. I know a lot of guys who do just fine at your height or shorter.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I don't know how many of them there are, but there exists a niche of women who believe that smaller guys have bigger dicks. And it's less out of a need for a huge one and more out of a fascination with said belief.

Could be the start to a beautiful relationship or a fruitful night.

Good luck

Hope you have a big dick

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’ve not heard of that belief before but where the hell did they get that belief from? Lol

[Telekinetic-Potato]

@WhiteBoyChill apparently from experience. Personally figure if your a big dude then the same size will look smaller than on a smaller body type

[Anonymous]

Not many people can handle the truth.

If you are a short guy, that is the equivalent of an older woman.

So if you want someone, you should lower your standards.

Work on all your other traits such as personality, character, charisma, develop your social skills (something most young people don't have nowadays).

Thats pretty much it.

Don't wear heel lifts... they're the biggest turn off ever.

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous Na a broke guy is equivalent to an older woman. A short guy can still generate attraction in a variety of ways.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner

Men always claim they know what women like.
No woman wants a short man

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner If that was true men like little Wayne Kevin Hart, Tom Cruise etc wouldn't. As long as a guy has money and status being short is easy to overcome. Unfortunately if you're an ugly woman yoi cooked.

[ammar12343]

Legit feel bad for short men lol

[WhiteBoyChill]

@Vegasrunner Key word being “money and status”

And for the record, most CEOs and men with “money and status” tend to be tall also by the way

[Vegasrunner]

@WhiteBoyChill Yep money and status is the great equalizer for men, unfortunately women can't use those things to make up for being unattractive. And no most men w/ money and status aren't tall thats a ridiculously stupid statement.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner

just because a woman is using you like an ATM card, it doesn't mean she actually wants to be with you. Most of these women who marry old disgusting men for money are likely also cheating on them with younger hotter men.

ugly women can put on makeup, go for plastic surgery. they're not cooked.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner You can't put lipstick on a pig, if she's ugly she's cooked, maybe she can trick some low value man but any man with options is going to pass.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner

Most girls look average to ugly without makeup, do you realize that?

Yea sure I can marry a man as long as he gives me a credit card without a spending limit. But I definitely be cheating on him with men that I'm actually attracted tov

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion owner I've been w/ over 400 women so yes I realize that most girls are average looking however thats not what we are discussing. Those average looking girls will all eventually settle for average men, and there is nothing they can do to change that. However if a man is ugly, or short, or broke, he can compensate for those things in several other ways and have all the beautiful women he wants.

[ammar12343]

@Vegasrunner 400? Just make it 500 women dude. Why not

[Vegasrunner]

@ammar12343 Then I would be lying.

[midnightmoon05]

What’s your height?
For tall or short or average…

work on your confidence

hygiene, patience, health, posture, positive outlook in life。

[Asker]

I'm 5'6". Thank you for the response

[Jammannn]

You're only an inch shorter than Tom Cruise and he's an icon for being attractive to women. Being famous isn't realistic, but I've seen plenty of short people who have success.

Upping your appereance

They all have good physiques. Doesn't take too long to stack muscle when you're short. Biceps/Abs are pretty universally attractive to women.

[Screenwriter]

Be confident in who you are and what you have to give. The height of your body has nothing to do with the content of your character or your human value. If someone thinks it does, they'll never see you as a person.

[beenherebefore]

Be financially stable or have a successful career. Work out and take care of yourself. Having a good sense of style and a good amount of confidence helps too. Do not mistaken confidence with arrogance.

[slatyb]

Participate in activities that attract women and get to know them. Then your personality will be more important than your height. My brother is 5-7 and he's never had a problem attracting women.

[Kelley1]

To be realistic and be willing to settle for big girls and older women.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Fck that. No guy should ever settle for women they aren’t attracted to.

The dude can literally just try dating in Asian countries. SMH

[Kelley1]

@WhiteBoyChill That is easy to say, but unrealistic. Many men settle for women they are not attracted to. They will settle for an older fat women because that is the best they can do, and for them, settling is better than doing without. However, I am certain that some men choose to do without rather than settle for an older fat woman.

[EveryDayIsPretzelDay]

Lift weights. It won't make you taller, but it will make you stronger and more intimidating than you were before, and that's a big part of why girls find tall guys attractive.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Stop making being short your entire personality.

[Godihateyou]

Don't give a fuck. I'm 5'5" married a beautiful virgin. Still married 20+ years later. Have three beautiful daughters. Many friends. I've never hit my head on anything. Short people live longer too.

[Anonymous]

It ain't the dog in the fight, it's the fight in the dog. Height is irrelevant. Laugh off any woman that minimizes you because of your height. Do not make her shortcomings your responsibility.

[Erika0079]

Just don’t be the typical short man with short man syndrome, driving a massive car to compensate.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Date Asian women. That’s my advice (you’ll still be as tall as most Asian guys)

[236color]

Don't use dating apps.

[Keyboardkat]

A pair of Adler's Elevator Shoes?

[Zionne]

never give a damn to all of people's opinion

[Pohjolan]

Get yourself a step ladder.

[MrChinaski]

Grow up.

[In_Trance]

date shorter women