Is it true that Europeans consider a video call a very intimate thing or was this girl just BSing me?

[Anonymous]

I met her at a conference and when I asked her to do a video call after the conference is over. She told me that to consider an intimate thing if you’re in Europe. But she goes to me pretty soon after so she just wasn’t interested in me. But meanwhile, I asked another girl who’s going to the same Conference although this one I’ve been met yet actually I’ll meet her at the conference if she wanted to do a video call and she very readily agreed to it. It’s clear my interest is personal. I’m not being professional with her, so yeah. The first one was Dutch. This one is Austrian. I don’t know.

we talked for 80 minutes and then I was actually the one to wind it down. I thought maybe she was getting tired. I don’t think she’s too late to staying up Person and I asked her if she wanted to meet before the conference and she said she’s not sure if her friends are coming But if they’re not then yes.

[HollyK21]

She could just be one of those people who have a hard time saying no to your face (or in general) because they want to avoid confrontation of some sort. Does this mean she was lying? I think it’s neither here nor there now. You are most likely not going to find yourself in this exact situation ever again, so I would just turn my focus to other women.

[sawno]

If she is dutch that is probably not the reason, we are very direct. She will likely have said that she isn't interested.

[Asker]

@sawno she never told me she wasn’t interested. She ghosted me.

[sawno]

It can be, but it can also be a very normal thing. Personally I only video call with people who are closer to me, I don't reveal my face to randoms.

[Nikki1989]

They are more creepy than intimate. They are too cold to be intimate.