Is it weird that as a big guy I am mostly into slim girls?

[Anonymous]

Im 6'2 / 188 cm and 210 lbs / 95 kg i mostly into small girls. Im kinda bi and its same for men too. I want skinny slim guys too. Im wrestler and rugby player and constantly clash with big guys maybe thats why

[Finchie40]

I am not bi , but I am kind of built like you are , and I prefer slim girls’ as well. I am on the broader side and I use to think girls’ that I liked wouldn’t be interested in me until I realized I was wrong , A lot of girls’ I am attracted to were into me as well, which was kind of a shock to me , and it’s mainly because
Girls’ don’t really look at guys’ like guys’ look at girls’ , that’s one of the differences between men and women , we don’t see or think alike in some ways. I am not saying I get every attractive girl , but I also don’t get denied from every attractive girl either, the thing is everyone has their own preferences of what they like and don’t like , so all we can do is try , if you don’t try, you will never know. One thing that has helped me with girls’ is just being myself and not being shy, from my experiences with girls’ most of them loved that I am myself and that I am not very judgmental, I been told numerous times that I am very charismatic and that I like to smile a lot , and i look at the positive of things , over the negative of things , even though I do deal with negative at times , I don’t allow it to take the better of me , so it has worked for me , when it comes To girls’ that I am interested in or that are interested in me. I use to think I had to exercise every day and be slimmer for a girl to be interested in me , to find out I didn’t , a lot of girls don’t care for guys’ that live at the gym that are constantly worried about his looks , she wants a guy that gives her the quality time over anything else. girls’ that only like gym rats are girls’ that are insecure about themselves as well , that think validation and status is the most important thing , when clearly it doesn’t mean shit . most of those girls’ end up having their heart broken because he ends up cheating on her or treating her like shit , then she eventually goes for a nice guy that actually listens to her and respects her and actually values her and kicks herself in the ass for wasting her time on status and validation. I am not saying exercising is bad , but it shouldn’t be your main focus to look good , because of it is , then you are unfortunately insecure yourself and most girls’ hate insecure guys’

[Purpleronnie]

weird ? I’d hazard a guess that most heterosexual guys are also into slim girls the world over.


Does it complicate things that your also “kinda bi” well I dunno , does your slim preference also extend to guys? Or are you less fussed by the male physique?


Penis or vagina = not fussy , slim / not so slim = fussy … the more I think about it , maybe that IS weird


Hell I don’t know , you do you just be safe.

[Calyptomaniac]

I don't think so. My last guy was exactly 6 feet and he likes short girls that make him "feel like a giant". Small and slim is seen as feminine. I think it's common probably.

[valentina4eva]

i dont think it's weird🤔 everyone has preferences!!🤷🏻‍♀️

[kmg9150]

you're clashing because you're accepting them as competition and they would challenge control. Otherwise why care if others think what you like is weird? Its your life.

[Zack-Bann]

I’m slightly taller than you and 30 kg heavier and I like slim women too (never men though)
It’s not weird

[molonski2]

I would not think it's strange , there are plenty of big guys that are into slimmer , smaller women.

[Nikki1989]

You sound very confused. The "kinda bi" bit gave that away.

[kmg9150]

Just means he's like puss more than the buss

[Anonymous]

No i like attractive skinny women. Probably why I like HEGRE porn.

[confident666]

No, everybody is allowed to have preferences

[Anonymous]

Not weird at all. Are they into you?

[Trevor2K2]

I am your type if you want to talk